girls..... what are your intentions behind this????
By abj163
@abj163 (1037)
India
June 20, 2010 1:43am CST
generally .....whenever i met a girl for first time..i've noticed that maximum of them tried to show me that they are very innocent and very decent very simple and they dont know anything about their surrounding and they dont know how real world is??....but actually they were not innocent or any of them......so what are the intentions behind this.....do you thinks that all boys are fools????
and boys what do u say am i correct or wrong????
but girls firstly i would like to know your ur intentions[of course CRUEL]
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8 responses
@nottheleast (129)
• India
20 Jun 10
we don have any intension behind this. may be girls wont feel comfortable with you to share everything she knows at the first meet itself... so tell me one thing when meeting a girl for the first time a guy shows that he knows everything and like he can get through whatever he thinks..but he cant do it in real...wats ur intension behind this?
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@saihai (128)
• India
20 Jun 10
Yes its very true , you cant expect anyone to share everything at the very first meet, its not only for the girls same thing applicable for boys also.
I think relation always needs sometime to develop.Until and unless you understand him/her i think you wont go too frank .
But its not the fact that guys always show that they know everything, But i must accept the fact that boys try to show them self of !
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@abj163 (1037)
• India
20 Jun 10
there is not a specific intention behind this....i just wanted know what girls thinks when they meets a guy for first time......this happened with me when i met some girls recently.....and i dont know what about other guys but i dont show first time like i knows everything......and iam not that kinda person...not interested in impressing girls .....but honestly saying when i'll be interested in so i think i'll also try that way....happy mylotting
@abj163 (1037)
• India
20 Jun 10
@saihai iam not expecting everything from a girl when i meet them for first them .......but i just want them not to be a fake person.....i just want them to be theirself......like be yourself....
i havent told that each and every girl is like that i have mentioned the word MAXIMUM
happy mylotting.......!!!!!
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@labea17 (443)
• Philippines
21 Jun 10
Hi! Maybe some of them do that to attract more boys, but I don't generally do that. I tend to get quiet at first when meeting a new guy because I still don't know him very well and I am still adjusting with him. I'm not really the type of person to tell and show him everything all about me. It will take time.
@consultrainer (4991)
• India
20 Jun 10
you are still young to understand.
goodluck. and, happy my lotting. there are enough of other enthusiastic topics around, which deal with a similar subject, in a different way. I would suggest you not to get carried away by facebook, and twitter.
mylot is different from any other social networking website.
goodluck.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
21 Jun 10
abj my goodness you sure think all women are fools too, this is most unkind of you,you as much as say most all girls anr not inncoent or decent either.Thank God I am an elderly woman way past this kind of thing. But i think you have not been in the right place to meet decent girls if you 'think all girls are immoral and cruel. Maybe you need to grow up 'and also tend to your own being, are you innocent and decent and 'simple.Most girls would love to meet young men who do have morals, and are decent and innocent, as most of them are no where never as good as they might think they are. When I was of an age to date my intentions were always honorable. what about your own?
@abj163 (1037)
• India
21 Jun 10
first of all .....i dont think that women are fools or girls fools......if i will think like that then i will be a big fool in this world.....and i dont have any bad intention behind this....i just asked this because i have heard that reading female's mind is the most hard thing for men.....so i thought why not to ask at mylot in a different way......thats it no bad intentions are there....
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
Well,i cannot answer you about this thing.
I am a girl/woman,but i never did such thing to pretend being demure and innocent to a man.
And i don't find a reason why pretend like innocent,while others pretend to have known everything and acts too smartly.
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@saihai (128)
• India
20 Jun 10
ha ha ha !
Nice topic actually ! But i wont agree with you ! Everybody is not like that. I did come across with some girls who are very much practical. yeah its true that few of them try to be over innocent but It quite obvious that girls would be bit reserved in the very first meet( if dont then guys like you and me would definitely think other way lol ...).
I would say that its your bad luck you always come across with such kind of girls lol..:(
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@jamed28 (1903)
• Philippines
21 Jun 10
YOUR HANDSOME MAN!!! :)
Well just maybe you've met a few girls yet. :) Many girls won't agree with you on this. But I agree with you. There are girls that is acting hypocrite but not all. Well just maybe they are hiding the true side of them just to avoid you being turn-off about her. Since man are curse to court women, so they should appear pleasing to man. And they also want serious man. And to find a serious man, they should ALSO appear like a SERIOUS ONE. They don't want to look cheap.
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
22 Jun 10
Dude there's no one in the world who can really understand girls. We can spend a lot of time maybe our whole life in just trying to understand one girl and by the time we think we have figured that girl out she changes. Go figure! They all look simple and decent but you know what they say "Don't judge a book by its cover!".