help my friend of mine! i don't know how he see himself!

A doctor would be good however,can not change something that is your friend`s mind. You should advice him to understand that he must accept himself. Than you have to explain that he has qualities that other people do not have.

Hiya kumar, Your friend needs a lot of love and understanding that only Friends and his Family can give him. I would tell him not to let himself get overwhelmed with reading too many Books and such at the moment. To just take his time at the moment slow down as much as he can get the right amount of sleep and the right kind of food as much as he can. I mean food like beans, pulses, rice things to help his nerves calm down and heal a little more. After a few months that all this has happened is when he can begin to think about things and see how he feels. What he most needs is love, patience and understanding leaving him to think things out alone for a certain amount of time a Day. Just for him not to exhaust himself. All that takes time, let´s see if he is willing to give it that time to start healing whatever caused it. Hope he gets well soon.

Trust me and i am speaking from experience that when someone has those feelings they can take medicines and talk to people but there are a lot of times that they will always be that way. Sometimes it gets better but not always. I am on medicine and I still get depressed and have anxiety. I think that you should be there for him, but he also needs to keep seeing a doctor.

Hmmm.. perhaps your friend need to join some sort of support group that involves in a lot of activities in helping those who are really needy. Because more often than not we exaggerate our own bad situation to even realize that there are someone out there that has it even worse and still are striving hard to make things work. And also I'm not sure whether this can help.. hmm.. go online, search: comics without borders angelo tsarouchas. The show's about stand up comedians telling their jokes and it was actually hosted by russel peters. Hopefully this can help.

i think he needs to go to the hospital too, so he can receive the help he needs there

He should change his food to more vegetables and some easy sport like walking, maybe a slow running and if he can The Gym.He can't change the way he see himself, but he can shape his body.He only needs The Will!For example I do almost everyday jogging.

his problem is a tough one and i can almost see how his wife-to-be will complain about his negative attitude aggravated by his ailment. right now it is best to give him all the comfort that he require for only by doing so that he can pull himself together. only time can heal his discomfort. i read from a book before about a woman who complained the same symptoms. she took medication that barely worked. another mylotter has a friend who had the same situation and again a hopeless scenario. its only time that can help these people. its hellish what their going through.

I'm not an expert but I think if he can get out of the hospital envirnoment and go somewhere and relax. Ask him to do something creatively, never let him sit alone, always engage him with something or other creative work...like painting or taking pictures.

How about telling him positive things? It can be compliments about him, or motivational stories to share with him. You can get other friends to do that too. Maybe if he is around more people, his attention would be diverted and he won't feel so depressed.

I think he should go to see a doctor for a check up. What we can do is just wish that it's not serious and he will get better in no time. Calm down and cheer up, friend

He needs a physician. advice him to go to a psychologist for counseling. he needs help. and psychologists are trained to help people like him.

May be he wants to hear positive things about him from others!!! Always encourage him in a good manner... always make him feel that u are there for him all the time... and if necessary make him attend a counselling from a good doctor!!!

try to relax him. motivate to not get tenon and depression, they are the enemy for all things. don't worry all thing will be ok!

One thing for sure why not try him to introduce to GOD so that they will gonna have have an intimate relationship. He needs guidance from GOD and that will be the beginning of everything and the rest will just follow.Why not try that coz based on what you said you almost tried everything you could possibly thinkg of to try to help your friend. And for you all i can say is that you are one of a kind of a friend you are a true and loyal frien in which nowadays is hard to find.

Maybe he needs see the doctor.Cause the doctor will give him some help insted of you.Just try it.