A dove never changes its mate till its life time
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
June 20, 2010 7:23am CST
It will be ready to sacrifice its life for the sake of its partner. It will sacrifice its life when its mate dies. A dove will not have that temptation to fall for another mate even if it's a nicer mate than its mate.
We need to learn this moral from a dove, what do you say?
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12 responses
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
20 Jun 10
a small correction saphy, It's you that want to be with your loved one alone, for me I said I did not get any chance
Of course it's not that easy, so I am working hard to stay good.
Definitely it would be nice to be like a dove.( if you can't live like a dove, you can better choose a partner like a dove, good for you..)
Well, Our professor will definitely have some freaking different views on this topic too... now over to our freaking professor vannie
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
20 Jun 10
yes, we can learn so many things from dog, kukoo, dove, eagle, ants and so on.
What we have to learn from man????
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
hello dear anna,
No one wants to change partners my dear.
If ever,i want to spend my lifetime loving "YOU" (not you my dear anna,hehehe..)
But,sad to say,i lost that "YOU"
Happy weekdays ahead dear
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
20 Jun 10
Jai dear, I can't accept that statement "No one wants to change partners" - there are many people who want to constantly change partners-after all man is an animal- may be a cultured animal- If you have that virtue to live with a single partner, it's good for the family set up and for the children.
Sometimes it becomes inevitable to change the partner.
You know these things very well, I know that
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
20 Jun 10
In my opinion the people who are happy with a single partner are abnormal.But always truths are bitter.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
oh yeah...but i am referring to people who are normal (sorry,but people who change partners constantly are not normal ones,in normal aspect of love)
I can have a new love if i want to,but,there is something in my mind that holding me not to have one(right now,i don't know about tomorrow)
I do fall in love,(at present),but i am afraid as well to be in love this way.
@vandana7 (100617)
• India
20 Jun 10
Every morning I drink my cup of tea by the balcony that overlooks the terrace of my neighbors. My neighbor is kind enough to forget the overflowing water tank, which makes a neat water source for many doves. I have seen those guys flirting, and not always a single partner. Now, I am not sure the bonding is with one bird only, because I see some female(presumably) doves walking away and the dove turning to another bird. :) I only know I enjoy the romancing. :)
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
20 Jun 10
I have no plans to change my Dove ---i would never go for another
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
20 Jun 10
vannie, you seem to have learned too much about animals and birds.
have you learned anything about human?
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 10
that's a cool thing for a dove to do
but if i had to learn anything from a dove, i want to learn how to fly...
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
20 Jun 10
Oh, so you don't want to be a one woman man??Well, I also think learning flying from dove is more useful than the cool thing it does.
I think we are freaking frank mario,
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 10
i didn't say that i want, and i didn't say that i didn't want to..
and you can be Frank, i'm Mario hehe..
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
21 Jun 10
I do understand the word loyalty and fidelity but then it will only work if both partner are so in love with each other. The dove story has got some morals to it. Yet they are far different from humans because human heart and mind changes from time to time. Most of them can't stay devoted to their partners and the problem will not then start to roll.
It does happen to some rare love affair that no matter how things changes and even trial come to wreck havoc on the relationship they weathered the storm. That is the ideal relationship but for how long and it usually depends of the two person involved.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
22 Jun 10
yeah you are right reckon, I have seen a few couples who lived so happily together through thick and thin without the spark of love diminishing whatsoever.
@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
vijayanths, I didn't know that holds true for doves. I thought is was just for love birds. But that is nice to know.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
20 Jun 10
hi, eleenleyva, there is a kind of dove that has this top quality. I have also heard that love birds have similar virtues.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
20 Jun 10
I do not have anything to say vijayanths. After reading so many news in the news papers about the extra marital affairs and killing the spouse for the sake of lover, and adultery and affairs, i am happy that atleast doves are faithful to their mates.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
20 Jun 10
well said vathsala, nowadays faithfulness is becoming a rare commodity. But this is inevitable when there is a development in culture, economy and such stuffs.
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
20 Jun 10
But if at all we have real love towards our dove, definitely we will not think about another dove and that is for sure. People with uncertain mind will move from person to person like a monkey which hops from tree to tree.
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
21 Jun 10
It is a nice idea isn't it? I always love to hear stories of couples that have been married 50 years or more, very sweet. If this happens to me I'll be 92!
I can think of another bird that mates for life with the same, er, mate, and that's the albatross, Sir David Attenborough's favourite animal don't you know! I think he campaigns for its future along with the yachtswoman Ellen McCarthy.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
23 Jun 10
thanks Janey, I know this would amaze. You would be more amazed if I say this is very common scenario here.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
20 Jun 10
ok...No one will dare to sacrifice at their partners demise..
Nowadays one often gets bored of their partner within few yrs...some few days...due to lack of understanding...
Your point is nice....but an Utopian one...
Still there are good souls around us...who respects their partner....
I'm not married...but when I...I'll respect..
thanks for sharing....
have a great day/night......
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
21 Jun 10
wow.... it's really beautiful wish i was a dove now i sure know that i can learn from it...
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
24 Jun 10
mmm. raviteja it's really beautiful to know about the dove, sure we should try to learn it from dove.