Hate Crush!!!
By meeksilent
@meeksilent (514)
Philippines
June 20, 2010 10:13pm CST
Months ago I recall into one of the the Tyra Banks Show about this hate crush thing. At first I was a bit confused of what its all about and after the discussions came along, I learned that its having a terrible hatred over sumone who's involved with ur boyfriend or girlfriend to the point that u are already stalking this person and threatens her utmost...
I relate to this topic coz I confess I had a hatecrush over this gurl who is the ex-gf of my boyfriend..Actually the girl is already married, but it was a forced marriage since the gurl had a baby on that guy but she admittedly wasn't in love to the man she got married with. And it was my current boyfriend whom she fell in love with, despite of already having a 7 year child with the one she was forcefully married. They got a hisory with my man and it just cant get out off my mind thinkin that they might still be n love even if the girl is already maried... I am definitely in doubt ryt now.. I hope I will soon forget my hatecrush over her coz me and my bf is already working on our relationship.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
9 Jul 10
i understand you feel insecure about your bf's love for you bcs they were separated by a marriage like that and not bcs they stopped to love each other but if he is with you now is bcs he loves you or he would fight for that girl even she was married right? so dont feel like that and try to forget that girl. dont hate her and just enjoy your relationship^^ he is with you so love him^^ if you love him so much and care so much why would he even look to that girl?^^
@katykicker (231)
•
21 Jun 10
Sometimes the reason for this is just because you a jealous and worried about the person you are in a relationship with. Unless you have any reason to doubt your boyfriend then I think you need to forget about this woman and learn to move on with your life. Obviously there is a reason that they broke up and it's not like they were still together when you met. Also, he must like you or he wouldn't be with you so perhaps you need to start realising that you are the one for your boyfriend.
She is his ex-girlfriend for a reason and she is obviously trying to move on with her life, whether she's in an arranged marriage or not (which I don't necessarily agree with although it does depend on the circumstance). I think you need to just forget about her, stop finding out information about her and don't ask him questions about the time he spent with her as it is just going to wind you up and keep eating you up inside.
@meeksilent (514)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
Actually,the reason why they broke up is that the family of the girl have known that she and my bf secretly meet each other at that time so the family opted her to marry the guy whom she already had a 7year old child already.. The girl was really decided to elope with the guy (who is my present bf), but he refused to do this by sacrificing their relationship as he thought about the greater good and that there would be no conflicts to arise... It was like having them broke up against their will... That's the reason why I really get insecured with the girl till now, I hate the feeling and the fact that they just broke up not because they have fallen out of love but because they just have to...
