Do you believe there is one person for everyone?
@Flirtykumquat (927)
United States
June 21, 2010 1:22pm CST
I never really believed in soul mates and I am not sure if it does exist. If there is one person for everyone how do we know where they are? I have had some people tell me that they have moved and found people they are destined to be with. Sometimes I am a young girl at heart and wish prince charming will pick me up off of my feet but I am not sure if that exists.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
21 Jun 10
i don't know... i do think that there are some people who are just meant to be together. some people who just know at that moment this is the one. does everyone get the chance to find that one person? i guess if we stay aware and expect the best, the answer is yes!
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@LifeGuru (922)
• Canada
22 Jun 10
Here's my story of how I met prince charming... Once up on last year, I was madly infatuated with a friend who really really did not like me in that way but only as a friend, for 3 long years... Break up after break up, they never seemed to notice I still had the hots for them. When they were about to feel like doing something irrational to themselves, I had to talk some sense into them from a friend's view and hoping they can have a better outlook and maybe hopefully go for me, but I was wrong... After a month without any contact, I knew something was up between one of their friends they had history with and when I found out it was official I was devastated! Heartbroken, facing the pain all over again and ready to give up on love... Well, in that same month at that same time span, I was in some group thing where people just hang out and chill and meet new people. The oldest person in the group was some guy who looked fairly decent... And kind of weird trying to interpret psychological aspects of life and study human behaviors etc. Sure I got the group energetic and pumped for things and all, but I felt like quitting after 2 weeks or so... So I told the oldest person there that I might leave the group for good since I had some stuff to sort out (this was all before that devastation), he was like okay... Here's my e-mal... I was stunned by the fact that he'd give me his e-mail... Whhyyy!?!?!? xD It could be the fact that I called him "adorable and looked like a little sweetheart..." Then I was convinced to stay for a few weeks more till they actually had to shut the program thing down. He and I ended up talking just as friends, he started hitting on me and stuff and I knew he was coming onto me the minute he gave me his e-mail... Next thing I know it he gives me his number within a few days... I was like in my mind.... BUDDY!!! What the jones!?!?!? Ok... That's nice I'm flattered. xD So anyways, that night where I nearly became a psychopath, he came to my rescue and talked it out with me to make me feel better... I was pretty good at judging people, he truly is a caring sweety... o.O He would not stop admitting that he liked me and he gave me some time to think about and stuff... It took me nearly a week to get my mind together to admit the feelings I denied to admit... When I read the poem he wrote me, it pierced my heart knowing that this guy is serious and is really really in love with me. The next time I seen him, I told him everything, especially the honest side of it. Then he and I became BF & GF... ^^ For more than a year now. :D He's my new awesome best friend als, I do not normally classify people as my best friend that I've known for a short period of time... but this guy's been there for me when I had nobody else, through my ups and downs, thick and thin, clothes shopping without any signs of resentment because he says I know how to rock that dress and stuff. xD He's been there through my PMS-ing times when I felt like giving up on him while he's too stubborn to let go till I found out I was going through my moody PMS thing and he ultimately forgave me no matter what. He's the best guy I've laid eyes on, cuter than that friend I had!!! No guy has passed the approvals in looks from both my girl cousins and my mother! But my prince charming? Ok, back it up here... Here's what my cousins had to say bout that guy I use to like... "Meehhh... Ehhh.. yuck. That's what he looks like!??!" As for my mom, "What?! You like that one? Yaaaak!" Now, prince charming scenario... "Whoa, he's waaay good looking than ___, he makes him look like my crap!" mom, "Woow! He's so handsome! He looks like a good boy! Where did you find handsome?!?!?! I want him to be my son in law! He can call me mom!" I was shocked by their reactions... I needed a second opinion anyways. Damn MrSmiley Prince Charming IS hella cute, handsome, sexy, sweet, everything I could ever ask and look for in a guy... I even scored him with my evaluation sheet, and passed with a 99.1%!!! Like as if eh!?! My expectation bar was 94% for someone to be my boyfriend out of 87 questions... But this guy? C'mon how can I resist? xD I truly madly deeply love this guy. He even constantly says he'd wanna live a life with me one day and wants me in his future for life and for keeps - yes he talked about marriage a few times which I was skeptical and acted immaturely at first because of commitments, but knowing how serious he is about me, I realized yea that's the type of guy I want - for life. He's like the prince charming I've never had and always dreamed of. ^^ He'd do anything for me just as I would do anything for him I never felt so this into deep about someone before! Sure there were people in the past, but some of them didn't mean anything...Since they were all the same, but this guy, he literally came out of a dream. The same dream I had last year last March, he's that same guy and he had the same dream that I had in the fall (gave me full details that I had written down of what he seen) - and I knew we had some weird deep spiritual connection all this time for each other. He always feels nervous around me, it's cute! xD And I still get butterflies for him. :P
Anyways, there will be a time for everyone, just keep your mind off of it, and focus on other things else where. Maybe when you're in a bit of trouble, your knight in shining armor will come to your rescue.
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
22 Jun 10
WOW - SOme people could write a life story on this topic. I didn't even read all this because it is to much to read in a discussion topic. Have fun reading this one LOL.
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@Archleone (2)
• Canada
23 Jun 10
She makes me seem a bit more creepy than it actually was.. If I remember right you were flirting with me even before I gave out my email.
@abj163 (1037)
• India
22 Jun 10
yes i do believe in this.....but the fact is some people meets up and other dont....so if u r not getting someone who is made for u...then your life is a waste then it is better to stay single.....so we have to find who is made for us who is perfect for us...not the one who is beautiful or handsome or rich.....we should know the feelings of each other thats it.....its not compulsory that u should agree with me
happy mylotting
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
21 Jun 10
Yes,
I believe that there is one person for everyone, that was already conformed in heaven.
The only thing is we have to wait to meet them,
At that time, your heart should melts...