Should all love between girls and boys end up with mariage?
@juanjuanlevin (147)
China
June 21, 2010 10:05pm CST
I love him but I can't be sure I will marry him and give him happy life.I just know that I will be heartbroken if I break up with him.Everytime I assume that I leave him for ever,my heart bleed.I want to know whether all the love should end up with marriage?Is there any other way ?
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7 responses
@qianyun6 (2067)
• China
22 Jun 10
Does he have the same feeling to you? If so, congratulations to you on finding another half in your life!
Since you have described the feeling with the word "love", I think marriage is the best solution. otherwise both of you two have the plan of being single and keeping your friendship forever?
@juanjuanlevin (147)
• China
22 Jun 10
Your response is so direct.I am shocked with it.Do you really think that i should marry the boy if I said out the "love"?what about you?Maybe I don't understand what is "love" in fact,the love i meant maybe only a kind of feeling or affection that I have a good impression of him.
@abj163 (1037)
• India
22 Jun 10
i think the best solution on this problem is precaution....u should stay single if u dont want to get hurt...my heart was also broken but iam recovered now.....the heart heals with time....but at first it hurts a lot...i was in a one sided love but now i just wanna stay single.....and actually iam staying single.......if u really love him .....then your love will never end up....just believe your love and it will be all right.......
happy mylotting
@juanjuanlevin (147)
• China
22 Jun 10
if i were in a one sided love,everything will be ok.Just because we are falling in love with each other,everything seems difficult to solve.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
ideally it should. but then i think it doesnt end up that way. life is such a big irony, big big trials and circumstances and there are too many things happening in our lives it is very hard for people to keep up, much more for relationships to be maintained.
@miaka05 (16)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
For me, it should be. When we love someone, what do we expect next? Isn't it to share our life with that person?? To share our life with that person means we have to marry him/her. To make that possible, it lies on personal choice and decision. They say love has also something to do with our brain and the feeling might last only 12-18 months. Imagine if you only rely on those feelings! You will fall out of love. . .so it is up to us to make it until marriage. Trust, honesty and faith are the main ingredients if you really want love to end up in marriage. But take note, when you marry, there could still be possibility of falling out of love if you stick on fantasy. So still, it is important to be realistic. Love is not like those in fairy tales because we are living in the real world.
@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
I don't think so. Some relationships are made to last a lifetime, some are there just for learning.
I personally had the same experience when I had a boyfriend who I'm really happy with, but I can't picture myself living with that person for the rest of my life. We lasted 2 years before I finally made a move. I'm just wasting my time and though I am very comfortable with him, I can't let that stop me from finding someone who's right for me
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
you dont need to marry the person^^ you can just live with the person or continue with him for more years together till you decide or to marry or to live together thats your decision^^ love each other is the most important the other things doesnt really matter^^ there are happy couples that are not married and are very happy^^ so you and him have to decide what you really want^^ you marry someone bcs you feel you want to show everyone you love that person but you can also live with that person that still shows you love him is the same thing^^ only difference is that to marry you make a cerimony with many friends but if you go live with him you can also make a party so^^ do what make you both happy^^
@Philip65 (91)
• Brunei Darussalam
22 Jun 10
i think it depends on the individual and also how you look at the meaning of marriage.. i've known some adults.. who are very good friend.. they stay together under the same house just like a normal couple.. but then they were never married nor do they have any children.. but i can feel that they really care for each other.. and enjoy everythin they do together..i think its just lovely.. well on the other hand, they may be some who thinks the other way, perhaps the more common to us Asian.. well whats the point of staying in a relationship if you're not going to marry your partner, in a way, you're preventing your partner from moving on in his love life while staying with you if you already have this in mind not to marry.. but then it still depends on the agreement, wants, and relationship that both of you wants for your future that makes the difference.. as well as making it work one way or another..