what do you do when everyone is against your relationship?
By babyretzel
@babyretzel (110)
Philippines
June 22, 2010 3:59am CST
they think that the guy will only hurt the girl...but those were all judgment because the guy has not done anything wrong yet and he assured everyone that he will prove his love for the girl...
9 responses
@rosie230 (1704)
•
22 Jun 10
You just have to carry on with your relationship regardless of what people may say or think. The only people that opinions matter are the two people in a relationship. In time people will get bored of saying the same thing, and being judgemental, and they will in time except the relationship.
Thank You for Best Response!
@reetu3 (262)
• India
22 Jun 10
i've gone through such situation my parents were against my marriage for me it was very difficult for me to go against them neither i can leave my boyfriend nor i can go against my parents at last i'd to marry against my parents though everything is alright right now but i'd always guilt that i hurted my parents i didn't regret my decision now everybody is accepting that my decision was right but the way i'd done it always make me feel guily...
@babyretzel (110)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
indeed that guilt is what bothers me...but then again, we just to prove to them that they are not exactly right.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
3 Aug 10
Well as far as you feel both of your love are true, then dont worry about the world.
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
22 Jun 10
I have that king of love which everyone I know is against but I somehow manage to keep it.You know the easy love is not so strong and lasting and ours proves that.We are together for 5 years now and we have gone through hell in order to keep our relation.Most of my relatives now don't know about it because I live far from them but we both are really happy and still love each other in the same way as we did in the beginning.
@cortezswifey (8)
• United States
26 Jul 10
ill tell them hey its my choice he's a good guy he promises never to hurt me and he hasent yet and if you dont like him beacause he is afrian american then oh well he's the best that has ever happend to me jus cuz u hear alot about black guys beating there girlfriends thats the kind of guys that give the other black guys bad reps... im happy with him and if i have to choose between you(friends) or him( my hubby) ill choose my hubby....
@angel_kaycee (1112)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
nothing... i don't even bother them as long as i know that i was
doing the right thing, they don't have the right to interfere
with my relationship in fact. it actually happens to me with my
current boyfriend. my mom was against him! she would go mad
hearing his name and she even gets wilder seeing him around the
house too. but i told my mom, i love this guy and you could not
do anything about it, give him the chance just like what i did.
i know my parents trusted me, and i have to see it for myself
that time. they just need to get to know each other i think. and
days went by, we prove to them that it's worth trying. now, my
mom and my boyfriend are in really good terms. my mom actually
scold me if i don't entertain him when he gets to our house, or
when she hears me arguing at the phone. when you really love the
person and you have greater belief that its worth it, prove it
to them! let them see it for themselves. don't be bothered by
them it won't get you anywhere. happy mylotting!
@ongtina (1232)
• Singapore
22 Jun 10
How long are you into the relationship? Do you know why others feel as they do? If it is only because they love you( it's always others are not good enough for you ), then see for yourself(your own feelings of whether both of your characters are compatible or not). BUT if it's because they know the boy, then think hard. Hurt doesn't come till you have fallen prey.
