I am so lonesome I could cry!

Hun, I've got a few years on you, and I would love to meet "Mr. Right" and I'm not settling for "Mr. Right-Now." However, I'm not breaking my heart over not having him. I'm not going to suffer because I don't have a man. I don't NEED a man to be happy. I don't need the pain of him hurting me because he goes looking for someone else? I have a home, a job, a cat (or 20) and I can be happy with that. And if he comes along, he'd better understand that the cats were here first....

Well, I guess you have to do something if you don't want to always be in the back burner. Be brave and play dangerous things, like go to a pub and start flirting. Mr. Perfect is not real, so don't wait for him. Life is an experience, so if you failed the first time, you may get smarter the next time. Age is not a factor, so don't think 48 is old. There are many 60 years old women got married to 30ish years guys. Start enjoying your life.

You sound depressed .Arent you?How about meeting doctor for curing that depression.Once oyu are confident,secure and happy you will attract lot of good people.There are up and downs in life .Life is just like that.Cheer up your mood and start working on yourself.

I'd say, Blue65packer, go get up, dress up and walk out of the door. Get a life. You'll see there are so much things you will learn to enjoy out there. I'm not perfect nor fitting to give u a word or two but I'm giving you them anyway. Life is not a bed of roses nor a walk in the park and AS ALWAYS IT HAS NO GUARANTEE!!! Whether you open up yourself and your heart to someone, eventually you will get hurt. Hurt comes in many ways. but you know what is sooo good about taking the risk of getting hurt, the feeling that we loved and we have been loved even if the love did not end in the way fairy tales always do. Don't waste your life feeling afraid. You deserve to be happy and you can be one if only you would choose to. One thing more, there is NO PERFECT PARTNER. Only less perfect partner who wants to give his loved one a close to perfect relationship.:-) Goodluck to you. :-)

For me the feelings in you now is crowded so yo must pray Jehovah God that he can examine your heart and the feeling's you now so that it can be firm and make true.

You are 48 years old,so you have children to play with.And you have wife to live with in daily life.You can find many interest on daily life.Go travel with your children and wife,it can bring you happy feelings.After do that,you will not feel lonesome.Have a good life.

you know anyone who is going to stay with you forever will always be you. Others will always be there to support you along the way for a brief while then you and they all will eventually move on and thats the law of life or you may call it nature. Only change is the permanent thing nothing else...we all are lonely and alone even those who you seem to see in relationships. because people are different and they need their space there are fairy tales too but not fairy tale endings...live life while you are waiting for your Mr. perfect ...what if he had already come and moved on because you refused to give him one chance to date you...tomorrow will never come unless you live in the present...venture out if you do not want to date others make a date with yourself, go out treat yourself to a cup of coffee or ice cream or a movie or simple walk in the garden and look up and say Thanks to you being you and being to feel the fresh air on your cheeks and blue sky above your head...feel the dance in your steps start loving yourself even if you do not feel like it force yourself to do this and see if you don't already feel better...love and hugs

When if your are lonely beside dating , you can find new friends.Try joining groups. I see from movies, your can join free classses or cheap classes in your community centre? Or join some classes , your can find new friends and same time learn new skills or get new hobbies.Find some useful or something your like in your community centres.While joining those classes just smile be pleasant.

first of all, dont doubt yourself, because if you dont have confidence in yourself, how can you expect another to have confidence in you? also, to be alone has its advantages, and there is nothing wrong with wanting love. i see your problem is simply the way you may be going about it. if you trust every man will hurt you then you will only be attracted to guys that will hurt you because that is what you allow in your mind. it would be better for you to learn to trust that you can be proper, and that you CAN find someone to love you properly..but you have to learn to love yourself first. water is attracted to what is wet, as what is dry moves towards what else is dry. you must put yourself in the position that you are what you want to attract. still, it is more complicated than that. whether you know it or not, you are loved already...loved by a being who could love you greater than any man any day. if only you would notice and recognize the one who already loves you, i am sure he could guide you to a man who would love you properly. be strong! have courage! and trust in the dream you hold dear in your heart. doubt will keep that dream of love from coming to life...because love is always faithful! to doubt you are already pushing love away!

You are suffering from depression. Get help now! Pick up the phone and start moving in the direction of managing that!

please dont be so sad^^ listen there are men you can trust so let your heart trust a guy^^ love someone and dont feel hurt^^ why dont you try to meet a guy? go out with your friends or alone and meet new people^^ im sure it will help you much and dont be afraid we all learn with bad relations^^ but if you dont try it you always will be afraid try it ^^