Girls and Boys can never be a friend..?
By sanjani
@sanjani (125)
Germany
21 responses
@abj163 (1037)
• India
22 Jun 10
i thin it depends on both of them....if they understands each other very well...then they will know it is friendship or love .....i think if both of them are in relationship with someone else then they could be good friends.....but they require a lot of patience for this..thats my thinking and its not compulsory that u must agree with me.......
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@kingjay071 (96)
• United States
9 Dec 12
Some think so. I believe if two, woman and man, can be just friends. It all bare down to how to want to act with each other. If the two feel that they can only be friends then it can stick to that point only but if one feel different from the other then it will not work for the two to only be friends.
@Ashokraghute (158)
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22 Dec 12
Hi Sanjani,
I put a question why boy & girl can never be friend? Of course they can ever be best friend than girl & girl or boy & boy. Then can share everything with each other. Pl don't mix lust with Love. Love has broad sense and meaning than lust. Love is feeling about other mate, relative, and every one, But no the case of lust.
@PiaAngela (79)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
They said opposite attract, but I still believe boy and a girl can still be friend.
If they become really good friend, they might fall in love but I have seen many who stayed friend.
Might be because they know each other too well, there is no more thrill anymore and no excitement and nothing more to find out, so they just remain friends.
So, my say on this, yes they can be friends!
@soulist (2985)
• United States
28 Nov 11
Film and real life are completely different. Not everything that happens in films happen in real life. I think guys and girls can be friends and not fall in love. I have plenty of male friends that I am not in love with or have thought of anything romantic with them.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
17 Nov 12
yaa..that is correct..I agree..I had no any knowledge on this topic.But I had to face some thing like this.my 2 best friends cheated me on this manner.I believed them..and behaved in a nice manner.But by hearing this type of talk,I was shocked,and decided to unbelieve all boys..But now I realized that all boys are not same..
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
17 Nov 12
Why not?? I have several friends here in Mexico that are boys. I also have some girls who are. BUt I have more boys than girl friends here.
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
20 Sep 12
until now i have a lot of girl friends, we never fall in love with each other, those who are friend became lover are already in love in the 1st the only started it out in a friendly relation to get to know each other well then show their true motive to each other later on.
@nehl_v8 (23)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
what? girls and boys can never be friends? based in my experience this concept is definitely not true, why? because my best friend is a girl, no i don't love her i don't even see my self falling in love with her but i treat her as one of the precious person in my life. she has a boy friend but we still find some time to spend together. now its been five years sins we met each other, whenever were together were just doing nothing except talking and laughing. ITS POSSIBLE:)
@rockydam83 (846)
• Italy
23 Jun 10
this is very true. Being a male i can assure you 100% that all males looks at girls to have some kind of physical relation to them. They want develop a relation with a girl thrugh friendship or any other similar way.
My these words dosent means that all males are cheaters, they all share the same feelings but not all of them dont follow their wishes. This kind of realtion always leads towards a disater.
@Susanayako1988 (350)
• China
23 Jun 10
My boyfriend says this is true and he thinks there are no true friendship between girls and boys. The reason they are seemingly friends is because they haven't decide to choose the other as a bf or gf.But I do not agree with him. I have seen great friendships between men and women.
@safirpurim (252)
• United States
23 Jun 10
boyz and girls can be friends but it goes deeper than that. the real question is..what is friendship? what if the male or female already has a husband, or wife? then the boy and girl should stay friends and not be in adultery! a friend would never disrespect their friend, whether male or female. but if neither of them has someone to love, then maybe they can take their friendship further. yet, they should be careful, because i know people who were friends, and then they got closer, and lost their friendship and now many of them hate one another
@lihongqi2002 (16)
• China
28 Jun 10
A single women and a single man ,when they get togehter,,they will make friends and make love soon. their bodies need eachother.but a marriged women and man are different ,they just make friendswithout making love.
@christiana81 (717)
• Romania
22 Jul 10
I think girls and boys can be friends... without love... i have some friends boys!
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
girls and boys can be friends^^ i had many friends boys and not all fell in love with me neither me with them that happens just when a guy and a girl are really close close friends like best friends they might fall in love^^ also i think thats cute when best friends fall in love^^ is so cute they sometimes dont even notice they are in love and just later when they are like losing each other they find it out^^ i really would like it to happen one day^^ i loved my best friend and he hurt me so much and i dont talk with him since some days already but he seems fine and happy like nothing happened talking with the girl he loves :( he really didnt care anymore that we were best friends and everytime i see their comments or remember what happened i be sad :(