A specialist in "first date or business meeting"
By cip116
@cip116 (1011)
Romania
June 22, 2010 12:03pm CST
I read a summary made by a specialist.
I learned that a woman talk with pleasure about food and... shoes !
Subject with "warning"
1.politics
2.sentimental past
Most interesting I found that:
"A man MUST NOT be romantic... first date"
You read the tips when you go on the first business meeting or first date?
You read the tips when you go on the first business meeting or first date?1 person likes this
5 responses
@danoluma (817)
• Kenya
22 Jun 10
Hi cip116, it depends, you know when you are going for the first business meeting. i.e an interview you have to behave like this and that but (official) and also when on a first date its different. On the first date women will talk about shoes and appearance and her weight!
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
22 Jun 10
Hi danoluma: I don't know how to deal with these topics, specially when a girl wants to visit a clothes store with me. I simply don't know what to say in these cases so I simply say yes to all of the things she is saying and I follow her. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
22 Jun 10
I believe that when you go on a first business meeting you must be professional.
Talk about the weather. For some reason men like that.
Romantic dates the first time, talk about anything you can think off and be yourself. And men can be romantic on their first date.
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
22 Jun 10
Hi saphrina: I think that when you are in your first date you have to be yourself because you want to be comfortable, but at the same time you should make a good impression of the person so it's important to make an effort and connect with this person, so football wouldn't be allowed on a first date. Lol. XD. It's nice that you think that you can be romantic on your first date. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Jun 10
hi cip no I sure do not as usually they are utter nonsense. I just
use my own common sense and a business meeting and a first date are
on the opposite poles of life. Be sober and informative and bow to older heads in a business meeting, and be attentive and and a littler romantic on the first date but very subtle not awkward. Just let her take the lead and whatever she likes to talk about hop right in and give your own two cents worth. You cannot go wrong with talking about her interests and comparing some of your own interests with hers. have fun. 
on the opposite poles of life. Be sober and informative and bow to older heads in a business meeting, and be attentive and and a littler romantic on the first date but very subtle not awkward. Just let her take the lead and whatever she likes to talk about hop right in and give your own two cents worth. You cannot go wrong with talking about her interests and comparing some of your own interests with hers. have fun. 1 person likes this
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
22 Jun 10
Hi cip: I understand that political and sentimental past are subjects with warning. In general in your first day you want to feel relaxed so it's normal that you don't want to discusss about politics specially if in this conversation you find that yo have a different political point of view with your date and sentimental past because it's a very private area and also why talk about the past if you should care about the fure. You can ask about this subject later when both of you feel confident enought to manage this subject.
but I don't understand why a man should not be romantic in the first date 
. I mean, he should not over react but a little of romance during the first date is ok and it's a good way to start something. Thanks for sharing with us this information. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
and sentimental past because it's a very private area and also why talk about the past if you should care about the fure. You can ask about this subject later when both of you feel confident enought to manage this subject.
but I don't understand why a man should not be romantic in the first date . I mean, he should not over react but a little of romance during the first date is ok and it's a good way to start something. Thanks for sharing with us this information. Have a nice day.
ALVARO1 person likes this
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 10
hehe...yeah. when i first started working, i was reading & practicing quite a few tips so that i could become better at my job. it did pay off to follow most of the common tips
but when on a first date, i just go with the flow...there are no universal tips for everyone. sometimes some ladies prefer men to act a certain way, and sometimes some ladies prefer another way.. so i just become myself and go with the flow of the night 
but when on a first date, i just go with the flow...there are no universal tips for everyone. sometimes some ladies prefer men to act a certain way, and sometimes some ladies prefer another way.. so i just become myself and go with the flow of the night 