Why don't I love?

Love is stronger anything ,you can to know that someday you will find real love.I hope that we all will experience true love i hope this becomes very soon. People hear me,hear me for a moment , belive in LOVE , belive in LOVE and kindness. sorry for english!

Judging from your story, I can see that you are not satisfied with yourself because you feel that you are not beautiful. So you can't find your own Mr.Right that you desire. Here, there are some advice that may be useful to you. One thing,you should realize looking for a BF is not easy in daily life. You have to take time to do that. Meanwhile, falling in love with a boy needs time and patience. Don't be worried. ok? Generally speaking, boys all like lovely and slim girls who have pretty faces and slim shapes and figures. In addition, her character should be gentle and her personality is easy-going. So you should make efforts to be that in order to satisfy the standards above. hahahah . Another thing, you should work hard to make up for your shortcomings. By doing so, you can balance your drawbacks,right? I do believe that you will make it in the future. Sure! Have a good luck!

Maybe because you dont have trust, faith or loyalness in your partner sometimes you have to take a risk to find love but im not saying trust anybody but if you feel it in your heart take the risk best luck to you (:

You are still quite young. Don't take it to seriously. Just go out and try to meet people. Go on some dates figure out what you like you don't have to fall in love with the first person you meet. It is to your advantage to date around a bit as your friends suggested. Just look for peoplel you like for the time being the love will come when it comes.

Don't fall in love base on feelings only. Consider some principles in choosing one to love. Don't be attracted to physical attributes to one person. Remember, not all that glitters are gold. You should know how to give love to receive love in return. When you fall in love take the risk of getting hurt also coupled with few sacrifices and compromises. Just wait for the right time in a right place, someone will come along.

To choose you love, and to love you choose!

Maybe you have a high expectation on being in love... that's why you don't feel in love yet... and maybe you haven't found the right man yet... just be patient... you're still young... may things will happen your life... just don't expect more on it...

I am a boy and I think your friends is telling the truth about you. the reason that your not in love yet is because the right time has not yet arrive for you. there were always right time for everything and falling in love is like a thief in the night that will just come along one day and steal your heart. You are young and please don't hurried love it doesn't work that way. Don't worry if I will meet stupid cupid I will instruct him to shoot your heart with his arrow so that you will finally be in love...just kidding. If you have suitor and you don't like them...just be patient the right man will come along.

stellalian,you shouldn't be so worried now.you are still young,still have time to find your true love!I don't agree with your friends' view.Many people find their true love in their first relationship.so it doesn't matter how many times do you fall in love.in my option,you don't need finding a boyfriend to show for other people,you need to know what kind of guys you like,then go for it.you can't develop every relationship into a marriage,so you just enjoy it now!

Even though, I'm not a male, I'd like to offer my insight and it should be especially beneficial to you because I am only a year older than you. I have only had 3 serious relationships in my life, so I do not agree with your friends when they say you have to experience a lot of people to realize what you want. In my opinion, that just formulates a name for you that you DON'T WANT and any good guy that does come along for you is not going to want to make you his wife knowing that you have been "around the block a few times". I feel that you already somehow know what you want and once encountering that person, you will know if that person is for you or not, unless you just have TERRIBLE judgment. My first serious relationship was throughout high school and lasted about 2-3 years. I considered that one my first love. My second serious relationship was my senior year of high school into college lasting all of a good 2 years before I hated him. I considered that my "puppy love". My third serious relationship was a long while after that. It took my heart a while to regroup after consecutive heartbreaks. One ending in alleged cheating based on he say/she say and the other ending in the same and senseless stupidity. I feel like the third is the charm. In my third relationship, we were together about a year before we got married because we were best friends before then. We have been through the ringer and back, but I am still madly in love with him. You should never think you're ugly because definitely aren't everything. If you don't believe me, trust me when I say that it's been proven. You should never, ever feel that way. Good things come to those who wait and just stay positive about it and be optimistic and the most wonderful man will walk into your life when you least expect it?

I can't exactly give you a male view since i'm not one but im around enough to somewhat know how they think. Im the same way when it comes to relationships and love but i'm only in high school. I really don't see a point in it for myself but I actually think its good you havent been in love. It shows your independent and dont rely on others to make you happy. The more dependent you are on a guy, the less they will want you so you should be happy that you dont fall for men easily! I guess as everyone says, "You'll just know when its right". You're still very young so marraige shouldnt be the center of your thoughts now. Wait until you're at least 30 and if you're still single then maybe start considering things more. Other wise dont stress it. :)