Do you believe in love at first sight?
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
June 22, 2010 1:32pm CST
I know that this question is a very common one. But, I am still curious, because they say, if the love that you feel just start in this way, "a love at first sight", the love will not last that long. And since it started because of the looks, eventually, it will also fade.
How about you, do you agree with this? Do you believe in love at first sight?
11 responses
@nitu1952 (286)
• India
23 Jun 10
yes i believe in love at first sight. i know that this question is different .i mean it vary from individual to individual. some individuals think that it is not our tradiation. but i am still curious because they say, if the love that you feel just start in a way,"a love at first sight",the love will not last that long.
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
21 Jul 10
It happend to me and my boyfriend, almost 10 months ago. We loved each other from the moment we saw each other, and kissed,it just that we didn`t say it, just after 2 months.
@roxyoo7 (246)
• India
23 Jun 10
Yes i do belive in love at first right.Indeed, it takes less than one second to decide whether you find someone physically attractive.
In most cases, we fall in love either to compensate for something we lack, when we find someone similar to us or to a person who is dear to us, or to put it more directly,when someone meets our unconscious criteria.This is simply a list of traits that should be found we sometimes fall in love with someone at first sight: simply because we found a person who met many of our unconscious criteria.
Scientists study our brain activity and say that it’s quiet possible but everyone is free to believe or not to believe.It depends on our psychological state at the moment.In some case we won’t even notice those charming eyes in another they can make a lasting impression on as. Also they say that it takes about 30 seconds to fall in love with someone.
Now thats a different thing that sometimes when we go on interacting with a person,we may find that he is not suitable because he is completely nonsense and absurd.But it doesn't happens many times.When we find someone attractive and if the other person finds us attractive too then both will talk in a manner to feel other person more comfortable.So for me love at first right really do exist.
@siaosong (165)
• United States
23 Jun 10
Yes, I agree with this. Marriage needs more not just good looking. But of course, a love of the first sight may also provide a chance to find the true love. We can not exclude this. But the probability, I think, is low relatively.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Jul 10
this is funny i also created a discussion here about love at first sight^^ just saw yours now^^ anyway yes i believe in love at first sight and i think it is a special kind of love bcs even before we meet the person deeply we already feel a connection with the person like telling us she is the one^^ thats so special i really wish that when i find the right guy for me i feel that^^
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
22 Jun 10
There have been many cases of "love at first sight". I certainly believe in this. Many couples have been so happy with each other throughout their lives. It certainly is an act of "destiny" ! There may be cases which ended by divorce, but that's not because of "love at first sight". Must be other relationship problems, I would think.
@o0jopak0o (6394)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
well i believe more in "like in first sight" for myself i dont call it love if it just last for a day.
@blackflorinel (475)
• Romania
22 Jun 10
i have to say that i dont belive at love at first sight that is just fizicle love not real love love should come frome the inside, not frome the eyes, its just rediculos to say that something like that exists love is not that simple
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
22 Jun 10
Yes i believe in love at first site because i had experienced the same and i am still in love with the girl i saw for the first time. She had completely melted my heart and i used to try and talk to her everyday. I didn't know whether it was love or not but i just knew that i couldn't stand even a day without seeing her just once. After two years when i proposed her even though she said no. But i still love her and will continue to love her forever.
@woodman321123 (356)
• China
23 Jun 10
I believe in love at first sight . Because my classmates who still love each other when they met for first sight ,they was in love at once . And now they will get married in three months later . So the love will still last long , if lover really like each other .