Does he like me? or is it just all in my head.
By NayaAbouzaid
@NayaAbouzaid (115)
Egypt
June 22, 2010 7:47pm CST
Im not trying to make up a fantasy about a guy being into me but i think he just might. He does things that i dont really understand.
We are normal friends. He is in my class.and it started out as this : Everyday he says whats up as im passing by (thats normal).
He always says my name out loud when i enter the class like in a Hey Naya ! kinda attitude( thats normal)
We have normal conversations and he responds with stuff like ( i like the way you think)(thats normal).
Then things got a little unusual .
I needed a photocopy of an SAT PRACTICE BOOK and i was going around asking people to lend me their books but then without even asking him he comes to me and says " i heard you askin for the book , i got one " i say " thanks can i take it now and photocopy it" he says" No,no let me photocopy it for you" It was normal but then i found out that the photocopy place was really far and he took like an hour from bus to bus in the rain to get me that copy but he never tells me he went through all that trouble. (now i dont know if thats normal) then all of a sudden after that , every single guy i knew was all nice and stuff to me. all of them i didnt really know and they are his best friends and they are all backin me up and not letting guys hit on me or bother me.
Does he like me or is it just in my head? because hes really cool and i might like him .
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8 responses
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 10
Well hard to said.But your can see,whether he is treating other people that way?.If he is extra extra nice to your than maybe.There is an option of confrontating him,but scare it will scare him.I think best is wait for it, let time expand this friendship, your can repay his kindness but threating him snacks,sweets,thank your cards,baking a cake and such. Better start as frienship and enjoy the friendship.
@smilepleeeaz (784)
• India
23 Jun 10
Hey sweetie..
Well I read your story and I liked it too.
Well i guess that guy is really interested in you and may be want to go around with you. But still you'll have to wait and watch.
i guess He does like you,becoz all he's doing for you is kinda indication for you. If you start getting more such indication you may also pass a positive indication to that guy, as you said you might like him. but still you have to be patient until the things gets sorted out.
Best of luck
take care
-Miraz :)
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Hello Naya. Sounds like you're really happy with it. That's good. At least having a crush on school might motivate you to do better in school. As for the liking thing, you'll never know it till he tells you and till he asks you if he can court you so perhaps you can wait but not to much expect it so you don't get disappointed.
@TheAdvocate (2392)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
I say enjoy the moment and don't overthink. Let him come out and say what he wants because every one is different. He may like you, but it may only be in a sister sort of way. I have friends who are that way because they were brought up well by their parents. Plus, there is no road map to understanding a guy's behavior, you just have to wing it. But be friendly to him so that if he wants to take it to the next level, he can at least take comfort in your friendship.
@dian21 (606)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
It's hard to assume yet that he likes you. That will be very painful if it's not. We don't know if he just likes being nice to you or if he's really like that even to others. You just have to wait for him to say that he likes you and wanted you to be more than friends maybe. Because there's not clear motivation yet why he is doing that. So you just have to enjoy your friendship and be thankful for all his concerns.
@Turbine305 (3)
• United States
23 Jun 10
Well, Just to give you a different point of view, I'm a guy and It sounds like Yes he does but don't try anything. Those are common things us guys do when we like a girl. We act like you're a queen and we try to keep you as happy as possible and make sure you don't have to work too hard for anything. Just wait for a bit, after a while it will start become extremely obvious that he likes you. I know these things like the back of my hand. Good Luck!
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
My answer to you is simple: Wait for it.
I know that we girls have the tendency to be thinking much of these things, most often when we like the guys back. But, the problem with over-thinking is it makes us assume and thus we become serious. We tend to be conscious of what we do, and eventually turning the guy off before he could say a word.
So, enjoy the moment. Act normally and let him do his thing. You just be there as cute as can be.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Hey there, Naya.:-)
Sounds like your friend really likes you. No doubt about it. No guy would have gone through that trouble if he doesn't care.C'mon... open your eyes. It is still early to speculate anything but the situation is obvious.
Now, the only question you need to answer is that "does he like you that much to be his girl?" or he only likes you in a platonic way? Other guys can be very sweet and gentlemanly especially when they think of the girl as their little sister, my male friends treat me like this. I hope this isn't a case like this with him.As I can hear you are silently wishing it is more than just friendship.
Goodluck. May he inspire you today.:-)
Goodluck. May he inspire you today.:-)
