will you keep in touch with ur bf/gf after u dumping him/her

I never keep in touch with my ex girl friend after we break up . Because she lie to me before . So I do not want to contact with her . But if you still love him ,I think you can call him ,tell him your feeling . Wish you all the best .

Of course I would! But it doesn't always work that way. Even I had a close.female friend about 6 years ago. Because I confessed her & I could not be more than friends she hates me to this day! I know my decision hurled her because she was indeed my best & closest friend yet my decision for my own life caused her much pain! (sigh) if only she would speak wit me & understand I m of a different culture & accept our differences as she did before in friendship! Now my actions have made her my enemy! Yet I only meant to maintain our friendship.

Please don't misunderstood me with my answer. This is just my opinion on the matter. I think, keeping in touch with an ex is not proper just after the break up. Although, that depends on the reason for break up or how much deep is your relationship with the person. Based on my experience, I never wanted to get in touch with my exes because the pain is fresh and of course we both needed to move on with our lives. However, I had this more than 5 years relationship and he is already my fiancee then, and broke up with him last February. I know it is not proper for me to get in touch with him just after breaking his heart and his dreams for me, but I just can't help not to talk to him because I wanted us to remain friends or even best friends. He became part of my family already and I felt guilty for hurting him, but I don't want to be unfair to him too. I have a new bf now and risked to have a new relationship and breaking the 5 years relationship. It is of course a stupid decision on my part, but it seems that we are like that when we are so in love. Well, until now, I am still talking with my ex fiancee and he has not moved on. I know am too selfish that's why when he wanted not to talk to me, I don't persist talking to him. He is and was so nice that I still can't let him go.

Well since you deleted anything that connects to him then might as well pray that he calls you back so you can patch things up.

it happened to me before... after the break up, i was still trying to communicate because i missed him... somehow, he was cold... probably because i hurt him... there was a feeling of wanting him back.. but it just seems imposible as he even barely reply... and besides we had long distance relationship since i have moved to another place.. maybe it still woudnt work... i let it be... i gave both of us time to heal.. i never contacted him again and i changed my number... i didnt even know that he came to the city to visit her relatives... i guess, you can still try to communicate with him..if he is still bitter of what happened, give each other time to heal... BTW, welcome to mylot!

ohh you deleted his number? how can you contact him? no dont forget him. if you miss him is bcs you still love him so dont let go. if you said he was so hurt is bcs he loves you so why give up? if you dont remember his number just ask one of your friends his number if they have it or talk with one of his friends guys and ask them his number for sure they have it. dont give up of him^^ you both love each other so^^ you just saw you made a mistake by breaking up^^ so im sure he will accept you back sooner or later. sure that now he is hurt but if you show him you are sorry and that you really love him for sure he accepts you back^^