I just want to be rich enough to enjoy life...
By hvedra
@hvedra (1619)
June 23, 2010 10:14am CST
Not that I don't enjoy life but it would be nice to never have to worry about money.
DH and I went out for the day on Monday. The weather was lovely we found a nice place to have lunch and we found a market stall selling some unusual herbs that we bought for the garden. It was such a lovely day I'd love to repeat it every day!
What is your idea of rich? Enough to do what you want and be happy or do you yearn for the penthouse and the luxury yatch?
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33 responses
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
23 Jun 10
To own a penthouse and a luxury yacht does not make one rich if one is faced with a debt. A debt that is too big to recover from the sale of the penthouse and the yacht. If you are faced with such a big debt I don't think you are happy.
I don't think you are happy either if you don't have enough to do what you want to do.
And you don't have to wait to be rich enough to do all that you want to do. To have enough to do some of what you want to do is surely rich enough.
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jun 10
Hi tomi tomi: I totally agree with you. It's not about the money you have or the things you have what makes you happy. I would like to have money to have less worries than the ones I have in this moment of my life and I also would like to have money to do the things that I want to do and that would make me happy. I think that if I'd be a rich person, I'll try to be a very active person. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
Just enough money to have my own house, my own transport and my own business. Enough money to be out of the country. Well I guess that means I have to be rich.. Id like to be one, but its not easy... Im not that lucky enough.. How I wish I could win the lottery.. Id really take care of the money.
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jun 10
Hi clouds: I think I take care of my money too and that I'm a good administrator, I make plans to make it last. I have my own house but I don't have my own business and I consider it something really important that would help me to have a more comfortable life level. I think that work is good and I would work even if I'm rich because if I don't I would be lazy and I won't administrate my business in the right way. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@moonchild1au (6237)
• Australia
23 Jun 10
I would have to say that my definition of rich money-wise is the same as yours...having enough so you don't have to worry about bills, etc...a few years ago when hubby was working in the mines, my definition of being broke was having less than $200 in the bank but now it's having nothing in the bank I would just like to have enough money to not have to worry about how I'm going to pay the next bill & to get myself debt-free.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jun 10
Hi moon child: I'm sorry about that. Unfortunetly money define our life level in our societies and we have to accept this. If you don't have enough money you can't do things that would make you happy, you can consider to do something tha passionates a lot, etc. So people shouldn't be slaves of their money but it's necessary. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
24 Jun 10
Hi hvedra~ I also don't feel the need to be "rich". I would
also just like to have enough money so that I can pay my bills
and not have to worry about money either. I would like to just
be able to have enough to go out to dinner or to buy things
that aren't extravagant and not have to wait and save forever
to get the things I want. I don't want much at this point,
just comfort and good health!
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jun 10
Hi Opal: I think that your answer is very reasonable. In fact, when people want to be rich they never thing they have enough money and it's not good. Looking for money for the sake of money it's not a good thing. I think that when people just want to accumulate millions they don't enjoy life either and that looking for your stability it's perfect. However, I have always dream about traveling, going to concerts and these things need more money than the average. That's the reason why I'd like to work in an embassy. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
23 Jun 10
I thought about this topic the other day, and there are some things about my life that I am would change if I never had to worry about money. I would buy a nice house and I would travel a lot more than I do today. I would visit a lot of different places in my own country and I would visit many other countries around the world.
My husband I and often drive around and visit other places in our local area, but when we want to visit places in other parts of the country we have to be more careful, because we have to pay for gas or pay for crossing some of the bridges, so we can't just travel as much as we want to. If we were rich we would travel around more often than we do today.
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jun 10
Hi Porcospino: It's really good to be sure that the house you have it's yours. I love my house and I wouldn't like to put my house in risk. I think that, in some cases people should be very careful when they make business related to their houses because, in case they lose it, they put their future in a big risk.
I love to travel as much as you do. I think that visiting new towns and places is a pleasure I would like to give me more often. There are wonderful places on earth to go and it's a blessing to learn personally about the different cultures that live among the earth. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jun 10
Hi sender: I think that in the 90% of the cases people can be happy with the things they have and I think that's what I do. I consider me a happy man and I try to enjoy my life even if I have the normal daily problems a person have to face. However, I'm not a comformist person and I would like to work to have more goals in my life and that includes to have a better economical stability. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
25 Jun 10
Hi hvedra, I'm really satisfied with my simple but happy lifestyle at the moment. What's more nothing would be much happier and more fortunate than I could get along with my loved ones under one roof all the time. Therefore I have nothing in pursuit of What I hope is all of us are always healthy and happy.
I don't yearn for to have whatever which is luxury like spacious penthouse, sports car or yatch with cool look, etc. How relaxing and comfortable my current life is. Apart from many other interesting activities like taking favorite foods with my loved ones when going out, spending a few days in the hilltop relaxingly once in a while with my hubby. It's a great fun as well to read and type post at myLot during my daily spare time. I feel refreshed as well seeing my vegetable and flower plants growing vigorously in the courtyard
Happy posting
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@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 10
hi hvedra,
i agree with your title, it's not like we're materialistic or else,
money always become an obstacle in life..
money cannot buy happiness, but i still believe money can bring happiness..
in my family, money issues often give the whole family lots of tension,
my father always got stressed with the education costs for both of my sister and i,
since the family business wasn't going well that time..
mom also affected by dad's bad behavior due to his stress..
there are many things here, where money is the core problems,
so i wander if money isn't a matter to us, we would be easier to have our life..
yes, i want to be rich to enjoy life..
thanks hvedra.. :)
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jun 10
Hi unuzz: Exactly. We understand that money won't make you happy and that life is more than accumulating money, but when we don't have enough money we can't do the things we want, we can't make some plans, we can't develop a business idea that we consider it would be great. It's sad to say this but the lack of money affects relationships. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
23 Jun 10
I guess everyone's definition of rich is different. We have a friend who is rich sometimes but because he always takes great risks he has lost his fortune a couple of times but he was able to get it back again. He is a single guy so he can afford to take risks, he is always starting new businesses and once they get rolling he sells them for a profit he is pretty smart, but things have happened to him in the past. Many so called rich people are not really rich at all, sure they make a good living but most of what they have is leveraged and their whole world could come crashing down very quickly if they were to lose their jobs. The truly rich are those who are financially secure and have money coming in from different resources and who own out right their pocessions. Those are the ones that are the fortunate ones the ones who will be just fine no matter what the economy is like.
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@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jun 10
Hi lady m: I agree with you. The concept of being "rich" is so complex that it's difficult to define who is a rich person. In my case I'm a single person so I think I could take some of the risks that your friend do. But to do so, I need the money. I would like to have my own business and help my brother so he'd be my main associate. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@celticeagle (167026)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Jun 10
I don't need a luxury yauht but I would need enough to upgrade my present situation, pay off all my bills, travel. and have enough I can save for old age and never have to worry about money again. I yearn to travel and not have to live from month to month anymore.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Jun 10
Hi celti ceagle: I think that I understand your answer because, even if I'm young we have to worry for the future and to have enough funds for our retirement. Even with that, I think that we all want to enjoy life in a positive way and when you worry for the bills you have to pay every month you are not able to enjoy the same way the beautiful things life offers you. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day.
ALVARO
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
23 Jun 10
I'm like you and just want the simply way of life. Living comfortable and not having to worry about having or not having enough money to pay the bills. I don't want the penthouse or the yacht. I want to be able to eat the foods I love, the bills all paid and be able to come and go as I please to enjoy what the world has to offer each and every one of us. If I was to have all the money in the world I probably end up giving most of it away because I wouldn't want to deal with the stress of it all. I just want enough to live a happy fulfulling life.
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@braiym3 (135)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
For me, being rich comes in so many ways. It can be rich in friends or not the materials things but typically, when we say "rich" it automatically relates to money matters. Well, it is true - my idea of being rich is having a lot of money wherein I will not keep on budgeting, not worrying of my money is enough to if I will spend something and being able to give those who are needy without considering of there will be left something for me.
@luisadannointed (6187)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
I want to be rich more than enough so I can still bless others, you know its my dream to extend my fortune to less fortunate because its great to have such privilege to lend a hand to people. I've been having a hard time earning my money so I can help my parents in our financial needs and sometimes we still lack of it so we need to ask assistant to our relatives and I tell you even though they are great people who always help us...It is better to give than to received and the feeling was so awesome!
It is my dream that God will bless me more than enough so I can bless others too. Right now I'm not yet rich and I don't get a stable job but you know God is so great that he let me pray a prayer of blessings to the people I know as in I pray for them personally I came in their house and pray for them and its a great feeling specially when they really experience God moving in their lives.
God bless you.
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@frozenphoenix (530)
• India
24 Jun 10
dude money will give you power.and with power you get responsibility.
when you have tat responsibility you cannot enjoy as you are doing now.
so just be happy with what you are.im not so rich either.
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
24 Jun 10
I would just like to have enough money to pay the necessary bills and have enough left over to be able to do a little bit extra. I would love to go to a trip to the zoo or go watch a play once in a while.
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@smartjack (520)
• India
24 Jun 10
Hey, that's nice of you to share your dream to be rich. Every one wants to be rich. but no one wants to work hard for it. Hard work brings all the riches into your life. Work hard and also work smart. being rich is not everything. it is necessary that the money is used for the right purpose. Use your money for others and be a blessing to there life. Make use of the money for bringing happiness in others life. You will be blessed. Just enjoying life is not important. It is important that the money you have should be used for good purpose only. So be rich my friend, but use the money for other's good.
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@blackflorinel (475)
• Romania
24 Jun 10
well everyone dreams of being rich and to not think about money every day , it would be nice if i could have at list 3 times more then i have nou to feel like i should not worie about money any more :P
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@mercedlegurpa (955)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
If I become a millionaire, well the first thing that I will do is help my relatives to enjoy life also and of course I will travel around the world, buy a house and lot, open a franchise business and donate some for the church.
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
24 Jun 10
Funny you should mention that. I grew up with and near wealthy people. My father chose to never spend his. I worked for the wealthy (investment banking). Never having to worry about money never goes away! Unless you are a trust baby. The wealthy chase down a nickel, no lie. There is more to being wealthy than most people know. Be happy in the shoes you're in!
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