What should I do?
By Yan0320
@Yan0320 (17)
June 24, 2010 3:51am CST
I,my boyfriend, we grew up together since 3 years old and became best friend in the middle school. 10 years later, he went abroad to study. 8 months ago, he asked me to be his girlfriend, I cried my eyes out and said "Yes". Everybody consider that we are the one for each other and we both agree with them.
He gave up his PhD courses because of his father's cancer and came back ahead of time. I asked a private holidays(almost 2 months), fellow him back hometown to accompany his parents. Then he got a perfect job from UNDP in Beijing and his father suggested him to go to work very intensively. Now he is work in Beijing and I come back(Shanghai) for my own job.
All my friends consider that I should quit my job and go to BJ for a new life with him, but when I told him about this, he always said "Don't be impatient my baby, we have a very long time to go and you shouldn't do anything without back way". I love him, and I want share my every minute with him, when he was in USA, I had been enough of the missing. I admit that I'm very moonstruck as a Pisces girl. So what should I do?~~~
1 response
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
hi there,you have such a great love story and i feel touched by reading the first sentences. but i know it's hard when you have something to do with your own lives even now that you are a couple,you still have struggles and problems of your own to face.
you can talk to him with all your feelings inside of you.talking is better more to understand each other. and as a couple,if you really loved each other,you will try to understand each other's feelings and goals perhaps to attain those goals.
i know it's hard to face life when you wanted to spend the rest of your day or whole life with someone dear to you.but as i've said you have to talk and understand each other to know what you really have to do with your lives...
@Yan0320 (17)
•
24 Jun 10
Thank you very much for your understanding and suggestion. We have talked about this for a few times but there always has no result.Why? We are both very independent, he did his all decision almost man and boy and so do I. Maybe I lost myself because of love, but he still consider me as the "super woman" in his memory and reject influencing me. He insist we can be together forever sooner or later, there just no chance. Now we make phone call,write MSN or Email very day, telling everything we go through and how much we missing each other. I work in the course of nature and search for new job by network, waiting the chance and see what will happen to us……
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
yeah,it's really hard to fall in love but turned out to be harder also to be with the arms of the one you truly loved.i find it really sad,even how much you really loved each other,you have to go different ways.
but i know,my friend that your time will still come and to be with the man you truly loved. wish you the best on your life...
but i know,my friend that your time will still come and to be with the man you truly loved. wish you the best on your life...