Do you have the guts to say "NO".....?

India
June 24, 2010 6:22am CST
At different points in time we find it very difficult to say NO and have to accept things we never wanted to do and at last we end up in a way or manner we never wanted to be in.......!
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@chillpill90 (1936)
24 Jun 10
I do have the guts to say no and because of this i never let people make me do anything i do not want to. No one has the right to make you do anything you do not want to.
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@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
24 Jun 10
This is called compromise. I can make small compromises when it comes to my family But I do not make in professional life. It is dangerous to make compromises because then come regrets and is much worse
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@med889 (5941)
24 Jun 10
I am someone who has the guts enough to say No and I believe we all must have it because it helps especially when we really do not want to accept something and then it is important to drag the limit line before it is too late.
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
4 Aug 10
Well sometimes i say No for most important things.
@abj163 (1037)
• India
24 Jun 10
nope i dont have guts to say no......its very difficult to hurt someone by saying no..so i use the word HMMMM....whenever i dont wanna say NO.......like i neither say yes nor no...so it is an easy way to this problem......i have joined a community of this on facebook also......happy mylotting
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@gaboni (644)
• Israel
26 Jul 10
Whenever I find it hard to say know, directly to the face... I say 'maybe' and then after gathered enough strength I change my 'maybe' to No... but I will never agree to do something that I don't like ;x I pity those people who can't stand for them own decisions.
@sharay (2769)
• India
24 Jun 10
I have never hesitated to say "no" unless my family is involved, with my friends and colleagues and others i dont compromise, i am just i am with them all...only sometimes as you said, because of my father mainly in order to not hurt them, i am compelled to say "yes" and then by the time i go through that situation i ask myself a 1000 times why did i say yes, but at the end i feel okay since i have made my parents happy
@anil78650 (177)
• India
27 Jun 10
Yes you saying right.It is very difficult to say no in some situation and if we dare to say no in that situation then we feel not good and we fall into int deep hole of regration.............their are some person that we can't say no to them like gf, best friends, parents, and for married of course the wife will come 1st.........