Ever got tired of reading a book?
By redmaryjane
@redmaryjane (891)
United States
June 24, 2010 12:32pm CST
Have any of you gotten this feeling? You're reading a book and for some reason, you lose interest and just want to read to get it over with, not caring for the story.
This happened to me recently. I'm currently reading "A Widow for One Year" by John Irving. I have to say that somewhere in the middle of reading this novel, I felt exhausted by the characters and the narration. This isn't to say that John Irving is a terrible writer. He's actually very good and his style is charming, for the lack of a better word.
So. Have any of you felt this way about a book? Why couldn't you keep reading it? Were you able to read all the way to the ending? Or did you just stop and put it down?
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
24 Jun 10
If I come across a book that is too boring, i can lose interest in it. This doesn't happen to often, but it does happen from time to time. When it does I usually dismiss the book and look for something else to peak my reading interest.
@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I hope this doesn't happen to me too much. I had to give up on a book once (schedule didn't permit me to have free time to actually read) then I ended up not picking up another book to read for about 5 months!
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@karen1969 (1779)
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28 Jun 10
Yes, reading a poor book can put you off reading. I try to go back to an author I know rarely disappoints like Jodi Picoult and Tess Gerritsen.
@rb4509 (12)
• United States
24 Jun 10
This has happened to me a few times. For me, most of the time it has to do with the writing style more than the subject matter. For instance I quit reading On the Road by Jack Kerouac because his use of punctuation was so odd. I know he writes that way for very specific reasons, but regardless of his literary theories it just makes his work frustrating to read.
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@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I think you have to be in a specific mood to read Kerouac. The books that made me feel the same way as you feel about him though, was Lolita and Anna Karenina. I read ALL of Anna Karenina. So much happens after the ending and after the "good part" which happens to be the first 3 parts of the book. I loved how the book was real and how it brought to light the things that women are facing after raising a family. I haven't finished Lolita. He just goes on and on and on and on that I couldn't take it anymore! I still want to "conquer" Lolita though. One day. One day...
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@AndrewFreyne (6281)
• United Kingdom
25 Jun 10
I love reading and this is one hobby that I have at the top of my list! Thankfully I have always chosen books that I thought might be interesting, real page turners as it were! On the odd occasion I have picked up a book and found the first few pages quite interesting and then all of a sudden it would become boring!
I would place the book aside for a few days to see if I could come back to it later and hopefully persevere with it but this just didn't work and so I had to accept defeat! There's nothing wrong with starting a book and then not being able to finish it. I think the important thing here is to read for pleasure! This is why we read as we are taken to different places and wonderful images are created within the deepest confines of our mind!
I generally stick to reading my favourite authors like Stephen King and Dean Koontz as well as Clive Barker. I will always try to make time for a good book as I know that I'm going to experience so much pleasure in the process! Andrew
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@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
26 Jun 10
Yes! A lot of people today don't see reading as pleasurable. Just last night, I was sitting in the bus on my way home, sighing in enjoyment at what I was reading (I was at the verge of the tying of loose ends in John Irving's "A Widow For One Year").
I feel the need to read more Stephen King. I think I'm brave enough for the Dark Tower series? I hope I am. I only have Clive Barker's first Abarat novel. Now that is a dude with excellent imagination!
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@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
25 Jun 10
Yes, I get that feeling often. Sometimes I'm just turned off by the story, or I'm not really interested. But I always read books all the way to the finish. It helps me to keep reading when I'm disinterested, even if the story doesn't get any better for me. It makes me appreciate books I love so much more, and finish more books more often. It even helps me study, because I've practiced reading and absorbing stuff I don't like to read! lol
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@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
26 Jun 10
It also helps me concentrate! Also, I studied literature in college, so I had to do a LOT of reading that I didn't like. Stopping from reading a book rarely happens to me but I've had this happen to me enough times to know better and persevere. When I reach that "boring point," I tend to just talk myself out of it, telling myself that "this is just me, and NOT the book. KEEP READING."
@thekelz (277)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 10
Their is nothing better than settling down and reading a really good book, however their are few things worst than reading a book that you do not enjoy. I'm reading a book at the moment that I have lost all interest in. I've been reading it now for two months, I just can't bring myself to read it but I've got to finish it because that'll bring me huge satisfaction and then I can start another one.Their is no way I can just put it down it has taken far too much time and effort for me to give up now.I'm into the last 100 pages, so I just need a really big effort and I'll have it finished soon.
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@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
25 Jun 10
It's like the thing you love doing the most feels like labor! thekelz, I've had to deal with a book that took me forever to read. Then it kinda ruined my day that I had to finish reading it in the middle of my commute, so I *had* to lug the thing around the whole day! The book supposedly is a great story about New Jersey, but really, the narrative was bland and it was focused on just one guy who didn't know how to deal with himself but is a nice person anyway. Kinda tragic if you ask me.
richnai,the current book I'm reading kinda gave me a dry spell. It's all well and good between that book and me though. There are a LOT of books in my personal library that I feel I should have surveyed first. I'll take your example and follow it! :)
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@karen1969 (1779)
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28 Jun 10
I read a book review where the writer said if they read the first 50 pages and still weren't into it, they stopped reading and I think this is a good idea. There's only so many books we can read in a lifetime, so why waste time on a bad one?
@iskabeybs (48)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
i have felt this way before. so i stopped reading the book. maybe i was just too sleepy that time, that's why i felt bored reading :) anyway, i finished reading the book, but on another day. its entitled THE GIRLS by LORI LANSENS :) its very nice :) and sweet. kinda confusing though, and you'll really have a hard time imagining how things are happening :)) but still, it was a good thing i saw the book again and had interest in reading it again :D
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@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
26 Jun 10
It takes a lot of perseverance to finish a book, when really, it's sitting on the palms of your hands!
@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
25 Jun 10
So it was a biography that didn't have much details on the subject's life? Makes me wonder why they're published. What was wrong with the book? Was the text leading to nowhere? I'm thinking the writer didn't put much development or "plot" into the subject's life. Was that the case?
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
not really. i am a bookworm and i would never get tired of reading books. i even encourage my kids to love and read books! it is like no matter how many books you give me, i will read them :)
@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
26 Jun 10
What a trooper you must be! I'm a compulsive book shopper, and I tend to buy books half a dozen at a time, especially if they're cheap second-hands in great shape :) You can imagine my colossal back-log of books. In spite of that, I am still determined to read every one of them (and a few of them twice or thrice over).
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
25 Jun 10
When I start reading a book it has to grab me right away or I will get bored. Once I get bored then there is no way I can continue to read it. I love a book that the first few pages of reading and I can't put it down. I get very upset when I get a book that I can't stay with because its just not doing anything for me.
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@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
25 Jun 10
Hi,
It actually depends on individual tastes and your mood at that time. When you picked that book, you were actually expecting something from that book. Unfortunately the theme of that book took your mind just the opposite way. Sometimes we want to escape something and we want literature to assist our escape. But instead of doing that it may rather take you back to the place or time or event you wanted to avoid. Now this is the reason why one should pick one's material wisely. May be it was not the best time to read that particular book. Later when the mood is right and in unison with the theme of the book, you'd find it interesting. Thanks.
God bless you
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@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
25 Jun 10
Thanks for you reply! I sometimes read to oppose certain moods. The mood of the book I'm currently reading was fun and trivial. The narrative gets tiring and repetitive sometimes, and there is just too much information to handle, especially when you're just leisurely reading. I agree with you on reading and moods and how they have to kind of jive, but reading is an individual act in and of itself. You just need a break sometimes.
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@arnold03 (21)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
that's one thing for me about reading...sometimes it doesn't make any sense...as you have said, maybe its a lack of better word and getting boring..i love reading even long stories but when i felt that its becoming complicated by some connected stories or characters...i began to stop!!my excitement lost!!thats it
@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
26 Jun 10
The thing is, the very book that I'm reading was making sense. In fact, it's a fun read.
Also, the phrase "a lack of better word" is an expression when a word you're using to describe something isn't exactly what you mean, but you want to use it anyway. For example, when I originally said "his style is charming, for the lack of a better word" I meant that to describe his style as "charming," BUT "charming" isn't close enough to describe his style anyway, but I went ahead and used it. I felt that "charming" is too soft a word, but I can't think of anything slightly stronger than that. "A lack of a better word" doesn't mean "there aren't enough words to make it interesting enough."
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@bretski_kimie (153)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
A good book is a book worth reading from page one until the end. So if you lose interest while you are at the middle or any part of the book, then it is not worth reading and is a waste of your time. As Robin Sharma states in his book: Who will cry when you die? (i recommend that you guys read this book), you don't have to finish every book you started. What i usually do to avoid not finishing a book is to browse first on its reviews at the back or the prelude of the story.
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@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
26 Jun 10
I've browsed through a lot of books whose synopses are interesting enough, but fall short in the middle. This has happened to me enough, but I feel like I owe it to the writer to read it until the end. If I wrote a book, I wouldn't want people to stop in the middle and never finish. Anna Karenina made me feel this way in spite of its classic status but I kept reading anyway. My being a lit major is paired with people's expectations that my education gives me license to say certain things about a lot of books but the bane of this is that I have to commit to what I read. Kinda sad. Especially when was reading Twilight :(
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@sergekid14 (98)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
yes, i actually hate reading since it is not my thing. i mean, it's not what i want that's why i only read books when studying if there will be an exam in our class. i'm not studious to read, read, read.... it is sooooo boring. i don't read story books as well.
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@blou020714 (163)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
there's this book that i have read and i wasnt able to finish coz the story is so dragging that along the story line i couldnt connect the situation no matter how i read the chapter a couple of times already. i even read far more from that chapter but still i cant find the connection of the previous chapter and so the best solution that i can offer to myself is to leave the book behind and go grab another one which i find so interesting till it ended!
@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
25 Jun 10
Oh my goodness so many memories! Lol I had to do an academic research project for college and it involved reading 30 local (meaning Filipino) romance novels and analyzing them for something specific to language.
Okay. This is not to say that Filipino writers are bad writers. A lot of them are really good and I was really thrilled to read a couple of these romance novels that are written by someone very accomplished (aka literary). But there are about probably 8 or 10 out the 30 novels I've read that were horrible. One had terrible dialog, like the writer was trying show off their English skills in giving their rich, successful and beautiful characters an edge that addresses something to the readers of these things. Then there was one about a girl who bought a house that was haunted by someone who knew her in a past life and is still in love with her (something like that). The point in the story came when the girl was moving stuff in and then she found something in the house that didn't belong to her and there was introduction to the "something" nor was there any mention of her moving in. Sadly, I had to bear with these things. I think I got an awesome grade though. Maybe my professor felt bad for me?
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@bournecaindelta (2477)
• India
25 Jun 10
Yes. There have been a lot of books which I got bored reading. Not novels necessarily. But textbooks and such stuff. I do not like very big novels. Anything above 600 pages gets me to stop reading soon. I once had this strange book which I bought when I started reading novels. I realized later that that book was not the type of books I would like to read and over that it was about 700 pages. After about 300 I got so bored of the book that I threw it in a corner and have never even looked towards it since then. I do not even remember it's name and don't even know if it's still there or not.
bourne
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@beautifulpages (70)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
yes, this happened to me also. however, most of the time, i get to read books that are very hard to put down. There are a lot of good books out there that makes us wonder how these writers were able to conjure such stories that affect us in ways we can't imagine. The following were some of the books/stories I've read that have made a mark in my heart:
Goodnight Mr Tom by Michelle Magorian
The Magic Finger by R. Dahl
Cinderella by the Brothers Grimm
Hope for the flowers
Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitchel Albom
The Horse Whisperer by Nicholas sparks
A message in a Bottle by N. Sparks
A walk to Remember
and so much more........
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@Bellapop (1279)
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30 Sep 10
I am only ever literally tired from reading a good book if I have been holding it for several hours non stop, otherwise, if I can't get into a book, I would soon put it down in about 10 minutes! :)
@redmaryjane (891)
• United States
7 Oct 10
Getting tired literally should be the only way to get tired of a book then! :)
@lismegla (1)
• United States
24 Jun 10
It happens to me all the time and I decide whether or not to finish the book based on my perceived quality of the novel. Is it a junk romance or spy novel? "Airport fiction?" If so, and the prose is really mind-numbing or the characters are flat, I feel no compunction about putting the book down. On the other hand, if the book can be more closely classified as "literature," then I generally make the attempt to make it all the way through the novel. Now, whether or not I ever read that author again is a different story...
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