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@jahernandezrivas (11288)
United States
June 24, 2010 5:24pm CST
If you are at your job and someone asked you to come there I mean that you left a job close to home and then you got there and you got along for a while and all of the sudden the person started acting like a total b... if you know what I mean I don't know how else to say it, but how would you feel? And you caught this person in so many lies and they claim to be your closet friend but you find out everything about the job is a lie and you have helped them and helped them when they needed their numbers just to keep their job and when you needed help they didn't help- you?What wuld you do in this situation knowing there is better opporrtunitys for other jobs but you could not just get up and quit?
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5 responses
@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
25 Jun 10
Wow, I am not sure, it is a very tough situation and I am not sure what would I do, I would be angry, yes, and I would say before leaving a job make sure you have another one, with two weeks notice.
That's the best I can say, I am not sure why there would be a job that no one can quit till there was a specific contract, which is very rare to me.
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
26 Jun 10
Yes it is a tough situation, I just went on to work and have not said a word to her in a few days, I just don't have time for people that act like that, It just seems all do fake to me anymore. Oh well have a good day!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
25 Jun 10
Have you asked this person why they have changed in such a manner considering that you left a good job to follow then and you thought they were a good friend? If you don’t receive an answer to your question and see some changes you may well have to look for another job although it will be difficult but you cannot continue feeling stressed and unhappy, it is not worth it...
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
26 Jun 10
I know it isn't worth it all the stress I just haven't said a word to her in days and today she tried to look at me but I looked right away like I did'nt even notice it, It is just a shame how someone can claim to be such a good friend and treat you the=at way, so I am going to just keep going to work until something better comes my way. I have high blood pressure and trust me no one can stand to be in the same room with this woman very long I don't see hoe she still has a job there, it is something I can not explain, al I can say is very loud and rude and a person who thinks they know everything,and has all the money in the world but tells me she is suffering and can hardly make it to work every week, I mean with having to put gas in the car and everything she does go to work everyday but always complaining about money.and my husband fixed her brakes for free even though he is not a mechanic, now before the argument she asked me to ask him about a front end alignment,and did not even give me the chance to tell her he is not a mechanic and besides the shop he works in does not have a machine to do that kind of work so she purposely blew up in front of my supervisor showing her a receipt saying blah blah blah it is going to cost her 600 dollars and I was thinking what is the matter you cant get it done for free?Well I have no time for people like that anymore that claim to be your friend and just act a fool.
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@aileen2008 (838)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
I will not have second thought in advising you to better leave before she ruins your image in the company. You deserve better than that.
@Brook909 (110)
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25 Jun 10
hi,my friend,you are talking about your colleague,I suppose,including your bosss.it's really upset if someone calls you and let you come back to company during the off time.I think you can tell the person casually that "we are really friends,are't we?"when the person asks you for help and you'd better emphasize remarks like this a few times when you get along.but if the person doesn't still help you if you have some trouble during your job,you can just ask the person you've ever helped:"hi,guy,you know we are closet friends when you need my help",maybe help
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
26 Jun 10
Trust me they won't and don't listen to anything that person thinks they know everything. I am so done with that person!! Well Have a Good Day!!
@rainbowink (296)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
If you feel like you're getting nowhere staying at that company. By that I mean, everything seems to be puzzling and that you know within yourself it's not a healthy environment anymore, then it's time for you to upgrade and grab those better opportunities. Good luck =)
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
26 Jun 10
Thanks because this place does not have anything!!!Thanks for the comment and wishing me luck!!
