Would you change your given name? If so, what would you change it to and why?
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
United States
June 24, 2010 7:14pm CST
Sometimes, I hate my name. I just feel like it's so...boring. Then again, it could be worse. I would pick something unique or maybe pick a name that is common, but with a different spelling.
So, if you had the chance to change the name you were given at birth, what would you change it to? Would you even change it at all? Why would you change it to a different name?
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@dierdre (2207)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
Oh i dont like my first name. Its 'amelia'. It sounds old lol. But i dont think that i would go to that extent that i want to change it. It would be such a hassle to do that right? hehe. My friends dont like it as well, and they tease me about it.
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@dierdre (2207)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
Lol, thank you, im glad you appreciate my name. My close friends just started calling me 'mel' starting first year high school, and its the name i tell whenever i meet new people ever since. Although when it comes to formal stuff, i write my whole name. They arent exactly mean when they tease me, they just make a joke out of it, lol. I guess they just dont like the sound of it. Hehe.
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@noslenandval (50)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
hi Stephanie, I like your name and your question. I was thinking about that when I was young, because I thought that my name was really weird and hard to say correctly for most of my teachers. lol, but now I love it. by the way, my name is Noslen, I got that from my father, his name is Nelson, he spelled his name backwards and got my name. I now think its cool that giving me a name was really given some deep thought. If ever I will be given a chance to change my name, if I would at all, I'd choose the name Andromeda, as I really like it since I was little, but I guess I'll just give that name to my daugther when I have one.
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@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I like your name too. It is indeed unique. I like how you father flipped around his name and created yours. It's a neat concept. My name would be strange if I flipped it. It would go from Stephanie to Einahpets. Now, how in the world would I pronounce that?
Thanks for the compliment!
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
They sure did! My name means 'crown.' I like the meaning. It was the only name they both could agree on!
@noslenandval (50)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
I agree, your name will sound even weird if you flip it. lol!but it's nice the way it is. I'm sure, your parents thought its a beautiful name and they do love it like how they love you, otherwise, they wouldn't name you that way.
@AmbiePam (94109)
• United States
25 Jun 10
When I was a teenager, I wanted to change my name to Athena. I must have had somewhat of a fascination for Greek mythology, because I wanted to name my daughter, if I had one, Isis. Go figure, huh? My name is Amber, and back then I wasn't happy with it. However now, I like it. I'm pretty happy with my name. If I had to change it now, I'd probably go with something more mainstream, like Meredith.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I wonder why your middle name is pronounced 'Marie' when it is smelled so different.
I agree that Amber is a pretty name. Although, I have to admit that I'm quite fond of Isis. I actually think Amber is quite a unique name I haven't come across any other people named Amber besides you!
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
25 Jun 10
Oh that's easy, because I have always hated my name..I'd pick Ciara, because I like the sound of it and the fact that no one else has this name spelled this way..:) Or if they do, it is rare..
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
25 Jun 10
It's pronounced like the desert Sierra desert. And yes, you shouldn't be surprised, after all I desperately wanted to name one of my girls this, (my husband didn't agree.) and so I named my character this and no one is going to tell me no..lol Plus I got to name my puppy Ciara, though she is in the dog house now..6 months old and she regressed back to pooping in the house so I have to watch her like i did when we first got her..I was told my daughters dog and her bosses dog did this at 6 months too, so maybe it's something some dogs go through at this age..
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I know how to pronounce the name. I think I knew a Ciara. Is there any reason why you like the name so much? I'm just curious if you had a reason behind it.
My dog is 9 years old. She's a Basset Hound. We trained her to ring the bell to go out. The bell dangles by the door and she nudges it with her nose when she needs to go to the bathroom. We trained her when she was still a puppy. Every time we saw her sniffing the ground and looking like she was going to go, we scooped her up, pressed her nose against the bell, said 'Out," and brought her outside. She learned pretty quick! She only had one accident!
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@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I should have guessed you would pick Ciara! OR maybe Cece. Is your name hard to pronounce? I hate when people butcher names.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
25 Jun 10
Hi Steph! I like your name! Want to trade? I doubt it! I would
definitely change my name because I hate my name! It is Leslie!
I have never liked it! But, I don't know what I would change
it too. It would be something different and a unique spelling!
I like the name Jasmine, but it doesn't fit me!lol And it isn't
that uncommon anymore! I'd have to give it alot of thought, I
guess. I think when I was younger I thought about it alot, but
now I'm too old to think up a cute, yet hip name!
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@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
Leslie isn't that bad! Maybe it'd be more unique if it was spelled Lesli.
I'm picky about names. I feel like once I'd choose one, I'd want to change it again! I like the name Orion for a boy though. I don't know why. I guess because it's a bit different than the common name, "Ryan" and it's the same name as the constellation.
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@de_toya (2429)
• Indonesia
25 Jun 10
I don't want to change my name even though I ever thought why did my name was so. I appreciate to my parents who gave me the meaningful name for me. Furthermore, if I change my name, it is not necessarily to be better than my name that given by my parents. I was just a name. Does our name influence our life? I don't think so.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I like that. Makes it seem like you'll live long. Since you're water after all! I wish my name was as unique as yours. Stephanie just means 'crown,'
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
What does your name mean? I'm curious because you said your name was meaningful...
I disagree to some extent. If your name was something completely irrational and aloof, no one would take you seriously. Although, I do agree that it doesn't affect the person you are inside.e
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
27 Jun 10
I like the name Jill. I'm not quite sure why. And thanks for the nice compliment. Stephanie means 'crown.' I don't think Jill sounds juvenile at all.
@celticeagle (168541)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jun 10
I was named after a Naval hero and a Queen. I would love to change my given name to my great grandmother's name. Old fashioned, full of grace and beauty. If I come into some money or have reason other wise to change my name I will take her name and be proud to have it. Yep. Yep. Yep.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I wish I was named after a hero and a queen. That would be kind of neat! What is your name? What is your great grandmother's name?
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@celticeagle (168541)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jun 10
Trade you!! I never liked them. I don't spread either of them on here. Thanks for your answer.
@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
27 Jun 10
In the States I had a legal name that I used for everything and a Hebrew name I only used for Hebrew school. I moved to Israel and took my Hebrew name as my legal name, It made life easier for me to have a normal name here.
@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
27 Jun 10
I'm still in Israel. 14 years now. My middle name in America is also Ann. It's a good name. It goes with almost anything.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
27 Jun 10
That's neat. Do you still live in Israel now? I'm Christian, so of course, I don't have a Hebrew name. My confirmation name is Ann though. (But that's my middle name anyway)
@allknowing (137976)
• India
25 Jun 10
I came home after my first day at school and complained to my father that I did not like my name and that I would want it changed. For the first time I came to know that there were so many girl names and I particularly liked the names Rosie and Flossy I told him! And now when I think of it I laugh at myself as I truly like my name and would not want to change it ever!
@allknowing (137976)
• India
25 Jun 10
Two 'yikes' really as when I think of it now I cannot imagine me with those names! As for my real name I don't think many here have revealed their true name and I am one of them!
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I would never want to be named Flossy. Yikes! I find that name incredible...strange. LOL Rosie isn't too bad though.
What actually is your name?
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I only wanted to know your first name! And my name is pretty darn obvious. Just look at my user name. You are quite right though. I don't know a lot of the names of the people on here.
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
27 Jun 10
I love my name. A lot of nicknames have sprung from my name. And one joke is "Wes aint in that mess." So no, I would never change my name. Even my last name, I could change to my father's name. But in respect and honor of my grandparents who raised me from a helpless baby, I keep my last name.
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
27 Jun 10
Having just read what shikiraclare said reminds me. My middle name is Wes. But I didn't decide to use it instead of my first name. That's what my grandparents and friends always called me and I didn't know what my real first name was until around sixth grade when I snooped in their room.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
27 Jun 10
That's nice! I'm glad you like your name! Apparently a lot of people don't! I like my last name though, even though people can't pronounce it that well.
@ET28LV (1890)
• Latvia
10 Jul 10
Hello!
I do not even think about It. Our parents give us a special name. Do you have heard about name role? I have tried to search and find my name role. And guess what a some part of written coincided with my nature. Just imagine If you change your name It is like change yourself. Yes your parents can give you a other name and maybe It would be worse. By the way, What is your name? My name is Edgars.
@dierdre (2207)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
Oh i havent heard of 'name roles' yet, but i've heard of 'name numerology'. I tried it and its true, our name does affect how our personalities turn out to be. By the way, your name is pretty unique. Edgar with an S. Its the first time i heard of it. :-)
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@ET28LV (1890)
• Latvia
13 Jul 10
Yes name numerology also works to me. No It isn't unique In my language we have expressed relaxation and endings and It is why my name is Edgars, but in English it need to write Edgar I guess. Nice to hear that you like It If you get to the my country you heard It more often. Have a nice day!
@stellalian (10)
• China
25 Jun 10
I'd like to change my name.Because my name is so common.When my junior and senior high school,I haven't realize this problem,but I went to college,I found this name is too popular.For example,I found three persons' names are the same as my.But I haven't found a better name.To explain,stellalian is my English name,I'm Chinese.
@stellalian (10)
• China
26 Jun 10
No,stellalian not common in China.I juse said my Chineae name.I don't know how to expain it in English.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I like Stellalian. It's really that common in China? My name is fairly common too. I've known about six girls with the same name as me. How annoying when they call your name and they meant the other person!
@shikiraclare (79)
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27 Jun 10
I did change my name about ten years ago now because I didn't like my first name (Clare) so have kept this and use as my middle name instead so haven't stopped using it, just prefer to keep it somewhere in the middle!
It cost something like £30 for me to have it done which in 1995/6 was a fair amount of money, you had to go to a solicitors office and you had to sign a declaration so was very straight forward procedure though dislike the fact that my birth certificate can't be changed. You just have a separate document with your changed name alongside your original name which just makes me feel stupid because I want my original first name completely deleted from my birth certificate.
Some people have ways and means of changing their identity completely and for good reasons but I have no idea of how they do this without there being some kind of repercussions? - I changed mine because I was abused as a child bu both parents and so understandably wanted to erase my name so I could recreate my own identity apart from the one that was given.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
27 Jun 10
Ah. Wow. How come you didn't like Clare? I'm glad to hear the process isn't that difficult. I'm not planning on changing my name though.
@ellie333 (21016)
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25 Jun 10
Hi Stephanie, I wouldn't want to change my name, I love it, it is so unusal the combination of my first and last name together that there are only two of me in the world whereas some names seem very common and if you do a seach there are hundreds. This is something that I feel is unique about me. Huggles. Ellie :D
@crysontherocks77 (1273)
• United States
25 Jun 10
It doesn't take much to change your name as long as you have all the right documents but if I wanted to changed I would probly change it to a name that was mroe unique than a name that was popular like mine is. my name is crystal and although it's spelled like the crystal people still spell it wrong. I hate it. So if I could it would probably be a name like Alicia, or ariana, or something else that is way more unique. My daughters name is Kathryn and the way I had it spelled out it's a very unique name because most spell it and pronounce it as Catherine and not Kathryn
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
26 Jun 10
I like the name Crystal. I have met a few though. And I think I have met a Kathryn once, spelled the same way you noted. My best friend has the same name. But she spells it Catherine.
@jemaries (321)
• Saudi Arabia
25 Jun 10
yes! if i have given a chance or have a choice to change my name i rather be like alexis or alexandria , but it doesnt mean i dont like my name i have it now,its only my choices name,i wanted to change my name because it sounded like my name from other country
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
26 Jun 10
I like the name Alexis. I known a few people with that name. I think it's a beautiful name. Be glad your name isn't something completely strange though.
@karen1969 (1779)
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25 Jun 10
I was born with the name Karen, which was very common amongst British girls in the 1970s, so there were always several Karens in my class and I hated it. Over the years, I used a few nicknames like Kaz, then I was called Kasha all the time for 8 years, which I liked. Then I moved back to my old hometown, where everyone knew me as Karen, so I got used to that name again and now I like it, but it took a long time to become happy with it. I love East European names and would have liked to have been called something like Olga, Nadia, Yelena or Tatiana.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I hated that people in my class had the same name as me too! I actually know a girl named Karen, but her name is spelled Kerrin. It's kind of cute. Kasha sounds adorable too. I like it.
@santosmarichris (1849)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
Hi! Yes, if given a chance I would. My name is so common, even my last name is so common. So, in school there is alwasys 3 of us w/ the same name and last name (it's good my middle name has 2 initials or else it'll be common too). I would prefer a short unique name, that will fit on my id's and cards. Lol.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
25 Jun 10
I hate that! When I was in high school, they'd call my name and hen three of us would answer. How annoying! I'm never sure which one the teacher is calling on, so when I finally don't respond, they get mad at me for thinking it was someone else!
@lesfery (79)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
given a chance yes why not. i want a name with a male variation like danielle, gabrielle, or alexis or lexis, i don't know i just want a male sound name, but since my parents give it to me i won't change it because they have their own reason why they give it to me and in respect to them also, so i keep it.
@StephanieAnnC (4274)
• United States
26 Jun 10
I agree that I wouldn't change my name because my parents gave it to me for a reason. But, I would prefer a different name. I think Alexis and Daniele are beautiful names. Very popular too.