to be loved or to love? which one do u prefer? and why?

Indonesia
June 25, 2010 6:00am CST
Started from me, i prefer to be loved rather than to love. Because, I think that we can fall in love with anybody. I don't believe in love at first sight, even though it exists. Because i think to love someone, it will need a process and time. So i think one day i can love someone who loves me as much as he loves me now.
7 responses
@juryse (752)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
They say it's better to be loved than to love. But in life we have to do everything to fully experience what love is. So try loving too. Just make sure you are loving the right person and it's being reciprocated.
• Portugal
8 Jul 10
i agree with you i prefer to be loved than to love. sometimes we love someone and that person doesnt love us as much as we love them and we always care more than them well i think someone can just be happy when they both love the same way. and about being loved if a guy loves me so much and shows me it always for sure i will love him the same way^^ thats it to love and be loved^^
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
To love and be loved is fine if the feeling is mutual. I always follow what my heart says,and what my heart feels. But,sometimes,it is also good to love someone who love us more than we do. You are right,love needs process and it can develop in due time. So,i also would like to have someone who will love me and,i will learn to love someday. Have a good day always
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
25 Jun 10
Everyone likes to be loved. It is a good feeling to have in your heart. I would much prefer to be the giver of love. It's a piece of your heart that you offer unselfishly to someone else. What can be better than that?
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
hello luvlymee26! based on experience, i would rather have it both ways, meaning, i want to be loved and to love. this is because for me, even if somebody loves me truly but deep in my heart i could not return the favor coz he just can't make choobachuchu in my heart, is rather empty and meaningless. i can appreciate it more if the one loving me is the one i also love..it would be very great. of course, it would be easier if we are the one loved by someone. that would be a most wonderful experience to be truly loved. however, loving someone as much and being reciprocated is a truly wonderful experience which could not be bought.
@rastogisw (445)
• India
25 Jun 10
Of course ,I like to be loved by a my love more than to love someone which could be one sided also . I find its always better to be loved as they care also more then to whom we love .This is not necessary to whom we love they also love us or like us at all .
• India
25 Jun 10
I think both ways its a nice feeling and experience. when you love someone.. that's not under your control and its all natural thing. So you cant help yourself from loving someone. In the same way when you get love from someone, just feel that you are lucky And try to give it back. Love is one of the best feeling and emotion known to human and we should love it both ways. take care -Miraz :)