Spending time with your loved one

@ddaguno (3107)
Philippines
June 25, 2010 9:07am CST
why is it that when you are in love with somone you love spending time with him/her even if you're not doing anything interesting? Dou you also feel like this when you're in love?
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@iamneon1 (27)
• United States
28 Jun 10
I love just hanging out and spending time with my fiance not doing anything. We usually just hang out and watch movies together and I think that's one of the best things, or hanging out going for a walk. If you are in love with someone it doesn't matter what you do as long as you are doing it with them, and it makes whatever you are doing that much more special. yes I do very much feel that way being in love with my fiance.
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@nobbsy123 (851)
• Australia
26 Jun 10
Yes it's normal to want to spend time with your partner, however its just as important to have some alone time. eg Your partner may have a guys night and you may want to go out with your friends. Sometimes thats a good idea. I'm going to a family friends place for tea on wednesday and leaving my partner at home. One reason for that I want to spend a few hours apart. The other reason being she hasn't met any of them. So meeting about 10 new people at the same time is abit much. I hope she doesn't text me unless its an emergency. Nothing more embarrassing if the phone keeps going off all the time.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
I also do not know why. I think, when you are in love, you just don't know why. Love and loving they say does not find a logical reason for being in love. It is so true that when you are in love, you love to spend some time with your lover even when you do not do anything or some thing and you still feel very happy. I felt that with my boyfriend. It is enough that we are together and I am very much happy with it. Just being with him is heaven for me.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
26 Jun 10
I have been married now for 14 years and i still feel like that,but at the same time it is nice to have some space.I love doing things with my husband, like relaxing watching tv aswell as just drinking with our friends and chatting.
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@Suminundu (192)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 10
Hi ddaguno, nice question. You have to define the word "interesting' here because what I thought is that the time spent with him/her is interesting, or do you mean while you spend the time with him/her, you don't do anything interesting with your hands, for example, you touch his/her fingers, etc.?
• United Arab Emirates
26 Jun 10
Yes, I always felt that whenever I was in love. When you wear a certain dress for many days, you start unliking it as soon as you get a new one. Its the same here. When you look at someone for a long time, you feel bored. First you see all the good and then it slowly fades away. When you are in love you feel like spending more time with him / her. You always talk good about them. They also pamper you and its a new feeling. I still feel the same for my wife. I find out new reasons to love her. This makes her happy and makes me proud.
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@avani26 (1518)
• India
25 Jun 10
It does happen with everyone in love and has happened with me also. We do not understand the feeling at that time and nothing else matters to us then the person we love. I still feel the same for my hubby and want to spend all my time with him looks like I am still deeply in love with my hubby.
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@MDG2211 (711)
• Argentina
5 Jul 10
This it is the magic of being inspired love, always in the beginnings of a great love another thing does not exist in your life that your love.
@Royalty10 (196)
• Guyana
25 Jun 10
Duh! That's what love is dear. Lol
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@incus99 (1083)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
Being in love is one of the best gifts of life... being with someone you love makes you feel that you could live forever.. in retrospect, the time spent with a love one is a virtual investment to a relationship and an extension of courtship because the true definition of courtship is getting to know a person deeper.. you see courtship never ends even with marriage.. the time spent knowing your partner is also a very important investment that will spell a future of success in your relationship.
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• Portugal
8 Jul 10
ahah yes is true is like even if people are doing anything we feel happy still^^ there is a guy that is my friend and he always makes me feel happy when we talk even sometimes he just is singing to me and im just listening what he is singing but is so cute bcs everything he sings is meant for me^^ he is so cute isnt he?^^ i wish i could be near him^^