can we love more than one person at a time?
By prabahesoyam
@prabahesoyam (31)
India
June 25, 2010 9:18am CST
Im loving one girl. Fully my heart. I like her because of her beauty, kind, care and her good character. also she loving me truely. At that time i met one girl she is very beautyful. after some meeting i fall in love with her. She also had the same feeling. Like that whenever we meet someone sometimes we fall in love. We cant deny because it is human nature. But we simply hide ourself. There is no restriction to shower our love on anyone.. But we cant live with everyone whomever we love.. Tel ur openion...!!!
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23 responses
@laurafeng (2)
• China
26 Jun 10
Well,in my opinion,we can love another person at the same time.Love is full of huge,we needn't hold back our feeling.If you love sb,let she/him know. Life is short,don't leave regret to yourself.Im puzzled that why we only marry one time or not two&three? Frankly speaking,i couldn't do it like this.this is only an idea that flashes through in my mind.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
aww merchil you are so lucky^^ you have a sweet bf and his family is sweet too^^
@aikhong (661)
• Malaysia
25 Jun 10
I see. My opinion is that we should be loyal to our partner, be faithful in the relationship, this is the right thing to do. Although i may agree with you that we may like or love another person, but still, we should only have one till the end. :)
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
oh well your madly deeply inlove lol,base on my experience it happen to me to love 2 person but its difficult and its complicated.i choose one and the other one i rejected and stop communicating to him because i want relationship workout that's why its difficult to cheat when it comes into relationship.its good to be one man one woman monogamy relationship..
@smilepleeeaz (784)
• India
25 Jun 10
Well why not. Human heart is vast enough to hold the love for even the entire world.
Why cant we love more than one person at a time?
Dont we love our parents, or relatives, our friends. Indeed we do.
But when it comes to the partner or spouse of one, we seem to have a thinking that we cant love more than one at a time. And I believe its right. But sometimes we feel , as in your case ,that we are in love with two persons simultaneously. At that time we need to understand the difference between love , attraction and infatuation. Some times we confuse attraction with love and later on realize that this is not love. So the ting is to understand your own heart. You have to ask your own heart , do I love her, or is it I just feel attracted to her. If nothing Just close your eyes and think about the girl with whom you can spend your whole life, the girl whom you want to see as your wife, the girl you love enough to spend each and every moment of your life. i am sure you'll see the face of the girl you actually love.
take care !
-Miraz :)
@nitu1952 (286)
• India
26 Jun 10
love is of different types. love is there between the parents and child and between brother and sister. and between boy and a girl. Except the love between boy and a girl one can love more than one person at a time. there occurs a love between a single boy and a single girl.
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
I think it is impossible to love two people at the same time. The heart is too small to crowd it with too many feelings. This never happened to me. When I fall in love with a person and I am still having a relationship with another person, it means that I have fallen out of love with the other person.
@akhileshnigam (494)
• India
26 Jun 10
it depends upon you and your pocket ,you can love many ,but donot cheat anyone,life will full of happiness
@xuliwei123 (155)
• China
26 Jun 10
In my opinion love two men also not good for you. It will only confuse you and destroy you, on the basis of the relationship with your girlfriend, Trust and respect and love. If I were you, every time I think of another girl and she and you just feel your girlfriend. Think and feel those happy days, you are together. Think and feel that you like. In your mind screaming her name. I believe you will to the other girls. If it doesn't work. Your choice before you lose both.
@spongeDingDing (109)
• China
26 Jun 10
oh, u r not a good man, guy!! i just think u can't do this to that two cute girls. u can't figure ur feelings out now even u don't know which girl you like the more or u don't like both, u just want somrthing now. think carefully man. it's a big deal.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
you can like these two girls at the same time but your true love is just one^^ im sure that one of them is more important to you than the other one you just need to see who means more^^ and choose^^ you cant be in love with the two at same time mostly when one of them is your gf. you need to decide it who you love more and talk with your gf also and tell her you met other girl and you need time to see who you love really. if she loves you she will wait your decision even if it hurts her. just be honest with her^^
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
We can more thank one person.But the love you gave to them is not the same amount of love.You can love your family,your friends,your special someone.But falling inlove with more than one person in terms of relationship is a different topic.
There are some who do that but I don't think it's proper.Happy mylotting!!!
@rdm001 (69)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
I dont know exactly whats the difference between those two girls that you love, although I do think that you just like the other girl because of some aspects that your first girl lacks, correct me if Im wrong, or maybe its just an infatuation. As far as how many we can love, we can love as many as we want, the difference between love for friend and a significant other is that your love for your significant other is progressing to something more, do you understand what Im saying? Anyway, stop cheating.
@jayemway (16)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
depends on how you define love. do you really think it is love, i mean you're in love? i could be just affection, but not necessarily love. though it may be possible to be in love at two different persons at the same time, but definitely you won't love a person as much as the other and for any reason the love for the other may weather gradually as time goes by.
@asfora (57)
• Egypt
26 Jun 10
i think you r missing a very essential factor of true love ..devotion , you can't have true love without that and if any one says he is in love and still can have feelings for any one else then it is a false alarm baby...
true love makes u blind for any one else and gives you a full satisfaction make sure to look deep inside your self.
@cryptoboy (80)
• Bulgaria
25 Jun 10
I can love only one person,only one girl ... I will love my girl forever because she is my heart,she is my dream,she is my emotion ... And because she have registering in MyLots - Vergi I love you babe,only you ...
Sorry for my bad english!