i cried
@spongeDingDing (109)
China
June 25, 2010 11:26am CST
the tears is always in the eyes. too bad. i'm upset. why? i was happy when i know my final exam's reasult. but now, i chose the course that i will study in the college just now, and i'm sad. i never want to be a teacher, but my first choice is a normal school; the favourite city is DaLian and i want to go there very much, but at last i give it up; i don't like math, but i chose economics; the most i want to learn in the university is italian, but i give the Dalian university of foreign studies up; i like english, but the courses i chose almost have no relation with english. i know many of you can't understand it. why you like it but you don't choose it?? i have no idea. i don't know how say... i just down down down now. i'm sad.:-(
3 responses
@rosie230 (1704)
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25 Jun 10
Yes I think a lot of people would say the same thing, but I guess all I can say is that unless you can change your choice's... You can only get on with it, and do best you can. When I was at college, I chose things that I thought would give me the career that maybe I would like, and once I chose those subjects, I changed my mind, I could not get into it at all, and I wished that I had chosen something else that was more appealing to me.
Is there not a chance that you could speak to someone to change your mind, and choose something else? If you are this unhappy about your decision then you should tell your tutor your fears or problems, and they may be able to help you, or allow you to change it.
Hope it all works out for you
@spongeDingDing (109)
• China
26 Jun 10
ya, i got it. thank u so much. yes, i chose the subjects that i like, but my family said that is no use in the future, just like italian. i don't want to be a teacher, but they said the teacher is the best job that i can engage in. the said a teacher have two vacation a year, and stable salary, and the bonus... yes i admit all of them. but i just don't want to be a teacher, that's the whole reason.
whatever, thank u again...
@rosie230 (1704)
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26 Jun 10
As much as I respect my family, when using my career I have to choose what my dream would be, what I would like to do. There is not any point in becoming somebody who you do not want to. Yes I understand that whilst money as a teacher would be good, what would be the point if it just made you unhappy. You have to live your own life, and do what you want to do, it is your happiness and future.
@spongeDingDing (109)
• China
26 Jun 10
yes,u r right. i should fight for myself. do what i like.
thank u rosie, again. :)
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
2 Jan 13
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, i wonder why you take a course without interest, it is really hard to study our lesson without interest, don't be upset. Take your course as your challenge and study well to achieve in it. All the best
