If you have a problem whom you first to talk with?????

@jemaries (321)
Saudi Arabia
June 25, 2010 3:39pm CST
Is it your husband, boyfriend, your mother or your bestfriend,i asked this question because for me if a have a problem a just pray at first and asked GOD for guidance with my problem,and i i'll pray that i can solve the problem with his guidance, and after that i talked with my husband about that problem if we can solve it.
6 responses
@lbbaby (489)
• China
30 Jun 10
Well, the friend near me. Normally, I would tell my family or my friends. But it depends.
• India
26 Jun 10
PROBLEM..well thats a very common word in everyones life...life without problems is incomplete as well as very boring...in order to solve out the problems or for suggestions,advices,support every person has someone to talk with and share with...some say its his mother and for some its their diary ...for me its GOD... whenever i see a problem looking at me and giving me a devil smile tryind to tell me "i am coming to harrase you" i share it with god...i tell him how much is my capacity to handle the problem,how much is my strength and most importantly what is the prblem...god doesnt speak neither does he comes to my dream and tells me what to do...but he does or lets me do something through which i understand how should i tackle the problem...cant put into words ..its an inner feeling...its not that i dont have a best friend neither it is like that i dont have a diary..i tell my best friend also i share it with my diary my problems but anytime and everytime god is the first one to whom i try to speak about the hard time... :)
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jun 10
jemaries I believe that God helps those who help themselves first so I used to go to my husband but now I am a widow for years. so I will go to my adult son. also I pray to God that he can help my son to solve it but I do not just sit down and expect God to just magically make everything right.Things seldom work that way as I feel for my family God works through us instead.
@abj163 (1037)
• India
26 Jun 10
if i will have a problem....i wont tell anyone...not my parents and friends because they will worry about my problem.....they will take tension for nothing thats why i avoid to tell anyone my problem and yes i tell them only if the problem is out of control.....then i'll go to my parents....its my thinking so its not compulsory u must agree with me happy mylotting
@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
25 Jun 10
Hear is alos the same.
• Brazil
25 Jun 10
First I talk to my parents, they know me better than anybody and they always give me good advices.