Some parents do not deserve kids!!!
By chillpill90
@chillpill90 (1936)
June 26, 2010 4:56am CST
I was at my girlfriends house a few days ago and her mum was going on and on about how she had to put her life on hold to have kids!! Well no one made her have kids, if she didnt want any she should have used protection but no. And now her kids are 16 and 11 she things she doesnt have to bother looking after the 16 year old and can do what she wants, she is not being a parent anymore she wouldn't care if her kids died cos then at least she would be able to do what she wants.
I cannot believe that this woman things she can stop being a parent just cos it suits her people like this do not deserve to have kids!
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@chillpill90 (1936)
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28 Jun 10
Also this woman i am talking about acts more childish than her kids, when her new boyfriend is round she gets drunk doesnt eat and im thinking well what if something happened to the kids. She has only known the guy 3 weeks and he is there every night, i do not know the guy but think it is too soon and cos my girlfriend is liing there i do not know if he will do anything to her or what.
She has let her kids down on numerous times by arranging something with them and then changing it to suit her new fella and she dont realise that she is hurting her kids by spending no time with them.
Thankfully when my gf finishs college or maybe before she will be living with me away from that woman who ignores her and does not talk to her.
@bretski_kimie (153)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
I am totally in agreement with you. Their are people who don't deserve to have children. In the first place, it's not the fault of the child. He did not ask to be born so parents should not blame the child for the outcome of his birth. A child is a precious commodity and is from the Creator, and parents should recognize the fact that it is their doing and not of the child.
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
Some parents really don't deserve their kids. I can speak for the girl who stole my boyfriend from me because she is still married and has two kids. She doesn't deserve the kids because she is only thinking of her happiness. I can say this because my brother even if he is not happy with his marriage, decided to stay with his wife because his kids asked him could he not sacrifice his happiness for them?
My brother told us this when he came home a month ago and it made me realize how selfish the person I have loved for six years and the same goes to that person who is living a lie right now by staying with her husband pretending that everything is okay because she cannot risk shaming her name in their community. She has to stay with her husband for the prestige her husband brings.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
26 Jun 10
There are a lot of people out there that do not deserve to have children. The sad part is no one made them have children. They could have decided to take up a hobby or dance instead of being with someone. That woman has no idea how much she missed out on because she did not want to be a mom. Kids are only for a limited time and then, they grow up. She missed out on all the fun of children and being able to be happy and innocent again. TOO BAD for her!
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
Well, some parents aren't ready to be parents.They consider their kids as a result of "accidents". But this is not an alibi why a parent isn't a good parent.Once we became parents we need to face our responsibilities as parents. No one told us to get pregnant, not even that kid told told her to bring her out of this world. If children of undeserving parents only have a choice, they will choose another parent for themselves!
@woodman321123 (356)
• China
26 Jun 10
I think she is not a good mother ,even she is not deserve to have kids .Her acting really hurt her kids ,not only the kids' body but also their weak hearts . she should be punished for her action .Do you think so ?
@srganesh (6340)
• India
26 Jun 10
I pity the poor mother. She really should have missed all the naughty things of her kids when they were young. She should have been brutal at them when they were mischievous. It is very sad that she grew up with the mentality that kids are the only reason for her hindrance to success. I think she is the type of person who says that she could have done so many things unless so and so is not there. Actually they are good for nothing. Just ignore her.
