should i tell my friend or not?

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i always believed that honesty is the best policy. But what if telling the truth would create havoc in your friend's life? but what if my friend will know of the truth and will also know that i happen to know about it all the time and i did not tell her, would she understand? or would she be mad at me? i would be, if i happen to be in her place. You see, my male friend's wife is a work colleague and one day, another male colleague-friend and i were discussing about some irregularities that the "wife" had been doing and about the incident wherein that "wife" was discovered having an illicit affair with someone from another department. That juicy news was quite well known to me, fed by other "concerned" co-workers. It was then that particular male i was talking to mentioned that that "wife" must be suffering from attention-deficit disorder from her husband since he too had a short but torrid affair with that "wife" months back. He told me if i had not observed them both disappearing for hours during office celebrations, and that they often stayed for hours in some motels when the husband is on one of his frequent work-trips. I had some suspicions before but hearing it straight from the horse' mouth, it was definitely shocking. My male friend and that "wife" is barely one year into their marriage, they are both young and have good jobs that pays well. Soon after the illicit affair began with the male from another department, she got pregnant. I was happy for them of course because i thought all would now be well. But then, i discovered that barely a month after she gave birth, she made a tryst with the male from that another department in a friend's house. The male was seen as cuddling the baby and those who witnessed the event swore that the baby takes after him. She and the male went on with their escapades, many have witnessed them, i myself had seen them, she very pregnant with a second child. I saw them in a place, where very pregnant women who is on their month to deliver should never be, until the late night. Although they were with friends, it was obvious they are still an item. Now that she had given birth, it seems they are still continuing with their illicit relations. and my poor friend had no inkling whatsoever. His work entails him to travel constantly. Now,my other friends are prodding me to tell my male friend about what i know.But how can I? how can i break his heart? he love