Would you have you as a friend?

June 26, 2010 9:34am CST
Are you the type of friend you would want as a friend? Or are your friends the opposite of you and find that they balance your personality? I believe I am a good person. I am a strong believer in Karma, What you do in life deems what you receive. So I do like to try and consider my actions. I can be quite a push over and don't tend to stand my ground like I should do, but I am aware that I do that. I will do my best to do what I can for someone asking for my help and I am honest. So I think I would like me as a friend. xx
10 responses
• India
26 Jun 10
Well surely, I really want a friend like i am. According to me I'm kinda friend who is always ready to help my friend no matter what. But I am unlucky that people often dont understand me that well and I have been ditched many times in friendship. But still I too believe in doing goods and if not good I cant atleast do bad to anyone or harm anyone.
26 Jun 10
Thank you for responding smilepleeez. Those that have 'ditched' you in friendship obviously do not deserve a friend like you to enlighten their lives and are the ones missing out. I am sure the right friend is still yet to be lucky to have found a friend like you xxx You never know, Fishy82 may just be that friend and some good may have come from my topic xxx I hope so =)
@fish82 (39)
• United States
26 Jun 10
would you like to be my friend?! :-)
@fish82 (39)
• United States
26 Jun 10
sure, why not, as long as a person is true to himself
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
Modesty aside, I am a good friend. When I offer you my friendship, it is from the bottom of my heart. I sincerely mean it.;-) As per my friends' words they love being my friend. Maybe because I am the kind of friend who'd be present during the lowest time of your life rather than the fun time. When a friend cries, I cry with her/him. When she laughs, I laugh with him. But, when the world laughs at her, I stand by her/his side. I am a friend for all days, and I will never leave you unless you tell me so. So, yes, I want me as my friend.:-)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
I have my flaws as a person and as a friend. And, I can be your worst enemy, too.
27 Jun 10
You sound like a very good friend to have eurekafemme. I think that your friends lives are enlightened to have you in their lives and vice versa, as I am sure you are surrounded by the light of friendship and love. Thank you for responding xx
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
27 Jun 10
I believe that i would choose myself as a friend. I am kind and considerate of others. I try to help those in need whenever I can. I am not a mean spirited person. i am honest and trustworthy and caring. I would not mind having myself as a friend at all. I think i would be worthy of anyone's friendship.
27 Jun 10
Who could ask for anything more from a friend? You have some great qualities and I imagine you to be just as happy in your own company just as much as a friends xx
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
26 Jun 10
I've met two people in my life who have had the same birthday as mine. But we have never been able to see things from the same perspectives. I've tried and realized that we can never be close enough to enjoy things together as friends normally would.
26 Jun 10
If you all share the same birthday, then you all share the same star sign. Maybe in that case you are very much like each other in one form or another and are too similar, maybe not in perspective sense but in some other form?
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
26 Jun 10
We have done projects on the same title and theme. And I realized our worlds are just different. Thought I've always been optimistic in my outlook though. We may still be friends but not one I look forward to be out with to enjoy my evenings.
@fish82 (39)
• United States
26 Jun 10
a good quastion!!! i am a good person too. i would like me as a friend. a friend should be honest,fun, loyal. i hate when friends lie, even if it is a small lie and unharmful. i feel less of that person, but everybody is deffrent and have diffrent understanding about friendship and it is hard to find realy good friends.
26 Jun 10
Maybe it's hard to find really good friends because the right one is just around the corner waiting to meet you, it's just that the right time and place hasn't aligned yet. People do have very different opinions and understandings, which is why this world is such an interesting place I feel. Thank you for responding and I hope you and smilepleeeaz find a good friend in each other xxx
@fish82 (39)
• United States
26 Jun 10
thank you dear! hope you can find a good friend in me too!! :-)
27 Jun 10
Yes, I would! It would be great to have someone match me so we can do whatever I like! I would have time to do everything that I love!
27 Jun 10
Thank you for your input JackFlynn. What type of things would you like to have more time to do, that you really love doing?
@Rainegurl (2156)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
Hi, tiggerific I think so I am a very loyal friend who would stand by you if I think you are right and reprimand you when I think you are doing harm to yourself -- but would never leave you alone. I try to be true to my words and fulfill my promises. Have a nice day!
26 Jun 10
You sound like a very nice friend to have Rainegurl, your friends should see their lives enlightened to have you in it xxx Thank you for your response xxx
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
Hi tiggerific! Im a kind of a friend who is very easy to be with..kind but sometimes naughty :p I always want to laugh with my friends and have fun with them. Good for you that you are a strong believer of karma..nice. :) Yeah you are right, we want you to be our friend. anyway, welcome to mylot.com Have fun here, post all that you want..but first, read the discussion guideline my dear.. Have a nice day! Nice start! ;p
@jennbart (1330)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
I would have myself as a friend. Why? Because I make sure Iam a good friend to others.
@zel2zel (134)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
Honestly, I don't like my type as a friend. Because of the reason that, I know myself but not totally. I know my bad and dark sides, and if ever I will be friend to myself, then for sure I will be in a great disaster. I also don't want to befriend the opposite of me, I might kill her for being the opposite of me. In short, I don't like myself.
26 Jun 10
Well thank you for your honest zel2zel. Remember though that the best thing about knowing the things you do about yourself, the things that you don't like so much is that you have the ultimate power to change them and make them better. I think you would make a good friend because you know what you wouldn't inflict on another person and if you recognised signs of yourself in someone else you would know how to advise change xxx