fall in love anew at 54

Every person has the right to be happy and find love with whoever they want to and whenever they feel like to regardless of how young or old that person is. It is because she's 54 , she has no right to be loved at all? How biased people can be!If I were her kid, I will not encourage her but I will not stop her either. You said she is a fine lady,so why shouldn't she fell in love again? All her kids have their own lives to live now? She has done her part in raising them as good individuals despite the absence of their father.What is she left to do now? Weed the garden? This is her chance now to give time to herself after being abandoned and neglected for yeas. Time for her to get her life back again. Start anew with someone else.

Yes she definetely has the right to fall in love again and she should not have to put up with rude comments to make her feel bad about not wanting to be alone and falling in love. That was very rude and insensitve of your office mate to say it would be inappropriate for her to be inlove and happy. She did her time raising her kids alone and deserves to live a happy life with whomever she chooses. Best of luck to her tigeraunt. Go get em Lucy and be happy!!!

She certainly has the rihjt, ann. Love has no age boundaries. I'm getting older, and my love is getting stronger. Mike.

Hi Ann, Yes, she has every right to be happy. Every human being has that basic right. Her ex-husband doesn't care about her and she should not live the rest of her life in soltitude and cursing herself that one day she made a mistake by marrying a wrong guy. If life has given her an opportunity again, she must take it. To make a remark like that which you office mate did is indeed rude. Age is what we think how old we are. If your friend has fallen in love with someone she shouldn't abandon the thoughts, by taking age as a criterion. Good luck to your friend!

I'm a little baby,maybe she can.

yh she has the right n it also depends on her if that man understands her

Hi tigeraunt, What is wrong with women falling in love at 50 or over? at 54, she is still young, my friend got married again when she was 51, and is very, very much in love and happy, you are never too old to fall in love, love is not just for young people you know, so this woman should go for it, hope she will be happy and not listen to anyone, seems your office mate is a bit jealous, I think and by the way 50s ladies are not aging old ladies, I am a 58 years young lady. Tamara

Love is a treasure that we humans benefit from. It doesn't matter how old you are to be in love or to just be loved is to special to pass by. Those that make fun are just to shallow to appreciate the great gift this is.

...Hi there tigeraunt, Hope you are well. First your office mate was not only rude, but wrong. Fifty-four, if you ask me is no where near aging, in this day and age. Unless you go and sit in a rocking chair and consider yourself done with living. Look at George Bush Sr, parachuting at 86. Donald Trump, though he is not your ordinary man has a new young son. People travel, get new jobs, start businesses, and new hobbies as they get older. Your office mate is antiquated in his or her thinking and should apologize to the lady. Let's see what they do at 54? She has a right to be happy, I hope it turns into a good relationship and lasts a long time. Tell Lucy to enjoy all of it. Life is to be lived as long as you are breathing "o). Take care.