We love only once in life is that true?
@svaishali1985 (135)
India
June 27, 2010 3:41am CST
In life when we fall in love and because of any reason if marraige is not possible with he / she, and if we marry with another, is that possible we forget first love and really love to he / she? Is that possible we really forget first love? can we forget all memorable moments that was we spend with ours first love?
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@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
27 Jun 10
There are chances to forget the first love and it's memory temprerily in day to day life's stress, in seeing the chaming face of one's children, in the success of our life ect. Marriage is an agreement. It is done in front of the register legely and in gront of the God's presence. The couple promice to god that they would love each other. So marriage is a serious matter. One should pass his every second carefuly in marriage life. There can be a wound in one's mind because of the love failure. But thing of it day and night is not good. if I were in that position, I would do this: I will seek a lonley place and cry..cry. cry. I will take one week or one month or one year. After crying I will wipe my tears and raise up with fresh mind.
@svaishali1985 (135)
• India
28 Jun 10
hi johnpillai,I am impressed after reading urs thought. thanks for response.
@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
28 Jun 10
There people I know, leading succesful life with these scars and wounds. All the best.
@velentina (891)
• Mauritius
27 Jun 10
We cannot forget the first, second or any love relationship we had in the past. But this remains only a memory. The present counts for us if we are in love with someone now, we think only about him or her. I regret to tell you that my first love is no more but I still remember that person.
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
27 Jun 10
I love throughout my life non stop. This life comes only once, so why love only once, keep on loving baby.
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@craftyhomebody (443)
• United States
28 Jun 10
well yes it is possible to love more than once alot of
people get divorced and marry again or they lose a spouce
to god. and no i dont think that you forget your moments
with the other person you just keep them to yourself and
in your heart and make new one with the person you our with.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
hi svaishali,
Any first experiences in life cannot be forgotten easily or totally. It will remain in the memories, a part of the past, even it had inflicted a good or bad memories from the his past. IT will always remain a memory and tool for a person to either accept the reality of the situation or regret the situation at all by totally setting it off in one's mind as termed total rejection in his mind.
For any person, WE may love not only once, but many times after series of break-ups but It will always remain in one's memory but the depth of treasuring it will depend on degree how himself accept it. There are some not first experiences said to be more memorable one's , because the depth of affection and series of instances in his life had been striking moments for him and had greatly affected him as human being. That is the main reason why others who ended in a serious broken relationship cannot move one with their life unless had accepted the reality and moved on with their lives.
It is also true that first love experiences are remembered because this basically the new door for your experiences. It will remain in your memory but does not mean it will remain in your heart especially if you have found another person whom you love most than from your pasts. You new love will always remain many memories with your regardless if he is your first love or not.. Often times, memories does not directly goes with heart, Memories are part of our visual thinking process, this can be selective or not, and our hearts are feelings brought from part of others affection which is an acting process. Sam as, when a student, have trouble in memorizing his lessons to have a higher grades, does not mean he do not understood the lessons at all. It is that his heart does not go with what in his mind.It is his selection in his memories that he had a hard time memorizing the lessons, but he knows himself by heart that he understand the lesson and an experience he can relate from his past experiences that will remain a part of his school days.. Either he got a good or bad memories from it, it will just stay as a recalling one if he wanted to allow his mind to accept it and if he wanted his heart to seriously be affected with it and remained as an unforgettable experience in his life.
Happy mylotting
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
28 Jun 10
Well, if a person is affectionate and capable of loving then life is a stream, where people keep coming and you do love them. Just for one person one cannot stop loving. Every person is unique so you may like one person for one thing and other for other quality. Good memories are to be cherished that is why we never our first or other loves.
@sharay (2769)
• India
27 Jun 10
No one can ever forget their first love, they hold a special place in our hearts, i am happy that it did not work out for i still cherish those sweet memories, if i had married that person, i must have not had all those wonderful butterfly-flying moments that i tend to have at some unpredictable time in my life....but, i have to say thanks to my hubby for all this because if it is not for him, for the beautiful child and life i have now, i would not have had time to look into my past at all, since my present is good, i am able to cherish