It's over!
By mhekhies16
@mhekhies16 (462)
Philippines
June 27, 2010 4:31am CST
Hi mylotters!
Remember when I post a discussion about my crush here in my place? The silent man that I used to draw his profile picture and show it to him?
I have showed to him my admiration to him 3 times. I did something just to catch his attention, but it doesn't work. Now I think, it's much better if I will let him go...I think, I realize that I'm making myself look so stupid, so I decided to stop this craziness...maybe his not the right man for me...and beside, I'm 2yrs older than him and we have different religion too. So I think, it's very impossible to have him as my boyfriend. So, I think, this game is over, and I am the looser.
What do you think? Is my decision right or not? I feel, I already making myself so stupid... (.
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9 responses
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
i agree, she doesn't have to cut him off they can be just friends. but i do remember people getting married even though they're religion are different.
@kyle2krystel (2489)
• Japan
27 Jun 10
Actually I think you made a right choice and you're not stupid. Let him go after you trying to show him your admiration and he still don't pay attention. Sometimes guys play hard to get once they know you like them and we girls too do the same thing. You never know, one day he might realize that the girl that he's looking for is just there waiting for his attention and that could be you. Sometimes we don't realize things until it's too late. But, if he is you friend, try to keep the friendship but don't show any motives that you still like him or maybe he is just not for you. Don't worry there is a lot of fish in the ocean and I assure you that you'll find one better than him:) cheers!
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
Thanks kyle2krystel!
Yeah, you're right...Guys sometimes playing hard to get..and I think, I should stay away from him now..just for him to realize my worth.. ;p
Thanks again girl!
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
yah! you're right! I will always remember that girl! cheers!! ;p
@kyle2krystel (2489)
• Japan
28 Jun 10
You're welcome girl! Always remember that WE gurlz rockz&rulez haha:) cheers!
@derek_a (10873)
•
28 Jun 10
Seomtimes we have to let go and it's not beneficial to allow our ego to get the better of us and make us feel stupid. If you have made it obvious that you are interested and he is still indifferent, then I would say that he is not the guy for you. Move on.. Life is a huge adventure and there's lots more living to do without worrying about what is now past. You are not the loser, but the winner if you have made your decisions.
Other people's opinions are irrelevant. It is you who has to live out your life. Live for the adventure and mystery life will provide. Good luck.. 
_Derek
_Derek@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
Thanks derek for giving such a very nice advise! yes, life is a huge adventure...so why wasting for undeserving guy?
Thanks derek... ^__^
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Jun 10
well not stupid as im told these days many times women persue the guys. but, i will say, either he is very shy or hes really not in to you in that way. probably might like you just as a friend
anyway, you should look around and try to get interested in someone else. you are a beautiful girl and i'll bet lots are interested in you. they just think you are not interested in them.
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
Hello mhe,
Hey, at least you got to do what you want to do and that is to let him know that you like him. and what's religion got to do with not being with each other? have you seen him personally? i don't you're stupid. but some how you look at this guy outside of his appearance and some how you back off when you found something that is not part of your interest.you can be friends with him, why not.
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
yeah you're right..and I think what I saw was his religion.. ;(
I'm a roman catholic and he is INC..which are totally opposite in what I am believing..
@chanyounancy (57)
• United States
28 Jun 10
I don't think you are the loser.You are going to find the right man.It's just a problem of time...Well,I'm busy everyday and seldom see a man that draw my interest or is interested in me.So,you are luckier than me...
I always think people near me are so unreasonable...
@mhekhies16 (462)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
Thanks girl! maybe you're right, maybe I'm lucky..but I don't really feel it. (.
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
I don't think you are the loser. You put a lot of effort and I don't think he will find another girl like you. So think of it as he lose an opportunity to have someone like you. Don't feel bad just because of this guy. Their should be someone out there that is much much better than him.
@sweetloveforeve (13118)
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
aww thats cute what you did^^ drawing his face and showing him^^ but maybe he didnt understand that you love him yet^^ why dont you try to spend more time with him? you are not looking stupid just you are trying that that guy likes you ^^ there is nothing wrong also about different religion that doesnt mean he cant love you^^ religion doesnt matter as long as he accepts your beliefs. if you really like him try one more time but this time be more specific about what you feel for him^^ maybe he just think you like him as a friend you even said he is younger than you maybe he thinks that you wont look at him as a bf but just as a good friend who knows?^^
