why should we marry ?
By faisale83
@faisale83 (198)
India
June 27, 2010 1:00pm CST
why should we marry ? why it's not possible to live without marriage and invented the marriage to live together . Why community blaming those who select his/her partner and live together without marriage. why the society is like this
6 responses
@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
28 Jun 10
i think that living in together is done by others today to know more about their partner. they want to be emotionally stable before they marry cause there are many marriages today that end up broken.
as for me. i want to be married to the one i love someday. i want to be married before having baby.
@neo2311 (40)
• India
28 Jun 10
i think you are right , marriage were earlier a nice way to start a new life with a new person in our life earlier marriage use to let us know our partner only after marriage , which involved us for some time to know them properly which i think would have been fun in those days, today pepople experience this side of a married relationship way before marriage and after marriage they have a relation where they already know their partner but now they r like tolerating each other because now u compromise with you partner over thing you do not like bu have to do it or sacrifice for you r love in either case the adventure of marriage is gone so have boy friend and grl friend but don't let them read all the chapters of your life keep few for your after marriage life so that the relationship stay fresh and healthy
@Neel2011 (28)
• India
16 Jun 11
Realy, after a long time this kind of beautiful and abstract question found to see. Why should we marry ? Bcoz of culture or our beleive in tradition which runs since a long years. No nt @ all, it's bcoz very good frnds may have many numbers, bt soulmate should be only one. We care to our frnd and also share our feelings whatever it may happy or sorrow moments of our life, bt marraige is a kind of bond which made in heaven and it's a special power like whether one dont like another or hate gradually still then s/he cant be depart frm & iff make a distance then cant stop thinking abt him/her nor neglect to care too. Marriage is nt meant by adjustment or any compromize rather than it's a tie up between two souls of ever lasting for years and years, ages and ages..
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
27 Jun 10
there are a lot of reason why people marry, mine is because we think that it would be the best for our child. we are just living together and we planned to get married so that is we have a child already i want my child to have my name. we are married for 7 years now and be celebrating our 8 on august. so far so good. i guess there are more people who dont get married already and the society does not care already not like before, or it depends on what culture you belong. in our country it is possible to live together without getting married, or it also depends on what kind of tradition your family has.
@blackflorinel (475)
• Romania
28 Jun 10
wel in this society you have more opportunity, if you get married the bank will give you more easy a lone, and you have more faciliy, like you colud bye a plasma in rates, diferent lives, this is how society works , its not a crime to live in concubinage but it whont be so easy like when you are marryed, and whats the big deal its only a peace of paper :P its not that big of a deal to make if you dont whant an afther party, i say its a good thing that marriage exists, its easy you can get out of it easy, and its a step straight to more love . Any one whit ther opinion
@nina_khan (749)
• Pakistan
28 Jun 10
i think marriage is all about sharing good and bad times with your partner and also increasing your family as well.
but there are so many people those who are very busy in their lives in earning money. they enjoy all the money what they earn in a month and dont like to marry but in last part of their lives when they are old and need some ones help they are short of them
take care
