How to tell effectively tell afriend to move on?

Philippines
June 27, 2010 1:51pm CST
I have this friend who had her heart broken. and i really hate it that she cried for alsmost a month now and still does. we already talked about it for several times. i know i've already gave lots of advices but seems to me she never learns. she runs to me crying again and sometimes its irritating.
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• United States
27 Jun 10
This is a hard one to help on and I am sure your friend is very grateful that she can come to you. Never give advise as they are not looking for that even though they say they do. They just need to talk and someone to listen. They have to figure it out for themselves. Yes it can get irritating and have a friend who is like that, and if she is calling, sometimes I don't answer, not that I don't want to talk to her, but maybe that will get her to stop and think if I am not available. She has worked everything out and it is nice that she now calls and there is no drama.
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@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
27 Jun 10
Oh, I wish I could help you, I have a friend like that too, and I usually don't do anything, I figure she needs time to get over it and stuff, but it just takes really long sometimes. Looking forward to seeing what others have to say about this, I would like to know too!
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• Romania
28 Jun 10
a broken heart is not the end of the world,i had my heart broken too and it really hurt,but i got through it with some help from my friends.Try to explain her that if he doesn't appreciate her he doesn't deserve her and there are many other boys out there You are a good to her justg26 just stand by her side and everything will be alright