Equal treament to all nieces and newphews

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I have always wonder why there is such a thing inequality in treating nephews and nieces. I myself have suffered from that inequality of treatment from my aunts and even to my grannies. Unfortunately i was the less favorite niece. So what my cousins usually got from my aunt is what i rarely got from them. When it comes to gift, i get the good one and they get the best ones. nah! i had been asking myself as to what would be the basis to become a fave niece or nephew. Am i not as charming as my cousins that i get lesser attention? Yesterday, my workmate told me about her nieces and that is why i remember to brought up this topic, She says that she have four niece of the same ages. Those girls were all pretty yet according to her she has a favorite one in them. I ask her the reason why she is so much fond of her fave nice more than the other 3. Is her fave nice a lot prettier than the 3? But she says that they are all equally cute though in different ways. She even cant explain it to herself why she is fond of her fave one more than the other 3.My fellows answer kinda confuse me as to how is that possible. I have told myself many times that i would be fair to all my niece and nephews once i already have one as i know very well the feeling of being the lesser favorite though i want to keep my fingers cross to keep my words as i still dont know where this inequality come from and i dont know the reasons and the basis either. I even wonder if it is just a natural feeling to feel, that is to have a fave among the rest. What about you guys? Do u happen to have favorite niece or nephew among the rest? IF yes, care to tell me the reason why this is so?