Do you believe in this???
By Ongtina
@ongtina (1232)
Singapore
June 28, 2010 6:15am CST
My husband and his family had asked the spirits of the deceased family members and chatted with them through a medium at the beginning of the year. The spirit warned my husband of danger to him on the second half of the year, especially on the 7th month. It's mid year now and my husband is having accidents happening to him. About a week ago, he was injured when doing shifting job as the sliding door of the cupboard slided and slammed on his fingers(even though he had instructed a co worker to hold on to the door). His fingers swelled. Yesterday, his lorry skided and overturned into a drain as he was making a turn. The lorry's damaged and spoilt but he was lucky to escaped with a few bruises. I'm worried.
8 responses
@consultrainer (4991)
• India
28 Jun 10
first.. I understand that the elders of the family.. who are now in the spirit world, with all their advanced skills and because of their LOVE .. unconditional and absolute form of love on you and all your family... they will take care of you and your husband.
though they gave a warning about the oncoming danger.. some months before.. it is to remind you of the good methods of living, and to create an awareness of the LIFE BEYOND this life....
hope you both will not get PANICKED and will go about doing what all is good.
@ongtina (1232)
• Singapore
30 Jun 10
Thanks. About taking care, in the chat, his grandma had told him to drive slower as she could not catch up with him and couldn't look after him.My husband now drives slower compared to the past. In another light to the accident, if my husband didn't skidded and overturned, he may have been involved in yet another accident further down the road where 7 to 8 vehicles crashed, fatal accident. In a way we are thankful too, my husband only sustained very minor bruises.
@consultrainer (4991)
• India
1 Jul 10
you are very lucky. .. see, as I have understood... the elders are really there to HELP you out. I wish I could talk to you and your husband, to record this!~ .. but, .. you are all quite far apart, in this material world.
let me try to get in touch with you through the astral plane
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
Accidents happen and sometimes when we think too much about it that's the time it could happen. Why? First is because we become paranoid, unfocused and worried. Whenever we worry to much we tend to be more careless. I also believe in the power of mind. So all I could say is stop worrying about it and thinking too much about accidents. Think of good and positive things instead to attract positive energies instead of negative one.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Jun 10
ongtina I really do not belive in mediums asthey usually are scams
but I do believe in ghosts and spirits as I have seen one ghost.But
I think really that self fulfilling prophesy where you have made things happen because you were careless not because there was any evil thing
or spirt after you,.What happened to you husband could well have been coincidences too and some self fulfilling prophesy a
s he expected something bad to happen and got careless and that did happen.For one thing if your dad's fingers were in the wrong place as the door slide accidentally of course he would get hurt. I see both the coworker and your father being careless there. But again this is only my own opinion and I know that Shakespeare was right when he told horatio that there are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamt of in your philosophy,Horatio.
s he expected something bad to happen and got careless and that did happen.For one thing if your dad's fingers were in the wrong place as the door slide accidentally of course he would get hurt. I see both the coworker and your father being careless there. But again this is only my own opinion and I know that Shakespeare was right when he told horatio that there are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamt of in your philosophy,Horatio. 
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
Really as in your husband family's had asked the spirit of their deceased family and was able to chat with them. I think it's unbelievable for me to believe it. But then there might be some truth to it because the accidents that was told by the spirit actually happen. I think you husband needs to be really extra careful.
Regarding the contact with the spirits in the other life it is really exciting because I really wanted to talk my mother who just passed away last January this year. I have so many things to ask and tell her and to top of that I really miss my mother so much.
@ongtina (1232)
• Singapore
30 Jun 10
I'm sorry about your mom. Take care and keep the memories.
I wasn't present when they chatted with his grandma and dad(both deceased, gap of about 3 years). My husband only relate to us what they experienced and said that the spirits do exist cos they knew so much about them, and the manner of speaking too resembled.
he said that his grandma told him to drive slower, saying that she could not catch up and couldn't look after him. He listened and so drove slower compared to the past. This accident where the lorry skidded and overturned can be seen in another aspect. It's strange but we're thankful, cos my husband sustained very minor bruises and if he didn't overturned and stopped there, he might have been involved in yet another accident further down the road. 7 to 8 vehicles crashed and it's fatal.
@unayao1997 (1)
• China
29 Jun 10
In fact, I do not believe in these spirits things. Maybe some scare feeling drives me not to thing about this. I am afrid of meeting it one day. What you said is really freak, there is one old saying in Chin: Rather to believe it exist, but to unbelieve it. Let your husband be careful in June, and everthing will be good soon.
@real_rhodella (59)
• Philippines
28 Jun 10
Base on the kind of culture in the community where I grew up, spirits and the like are true. I dont like to be irrational about this, as others think. I am not fully convinced whether such are true or not.
We are obliged to take care of ourselves and it's true that accidents are unavoida ble.
I think what happened to your husband is just a coincidence.
@Honeybuttz1397 (173)
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
Ongtina,
I would like to share this Biblical passage to you. I think it will help you.
Leviticus 19:31 Give no regards to mediums and familiar spirits;Do not seek after them,to be defiled by them: I am The Lord your God.
I am not condemning you and yet I cannot condone,what your husband and his family did. By consulting to a medium, you invited curse into your lives and that's the reason for your husband's accidents.
God is good all the time. He protects you and will continue to protect all of you. Pray to God and sincerely repent from what you did. Do not consult to mediums anymore. These accidents are going to stop. But tell your husband also to be cautious in everything he does and wherever he goes.Cause not everything is also connected to something supernatural ok?
