who gets more affected in breaking up? boy or a girl? why
By lesfery
@lesfery (79)
Philippines
June 28, 2010 7:12am CST
Personally i think it depends who asked for the break up and what are the reasons. Can i know your views??
7 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Jul 10
i think who gets more affected in break ups is the one that was more committed into it you know. the one that loved more. i dont agree when people say like girls get hurt more is true that we girls show feelings more openly than guys but about love both boys and girls fall in love so both get hurt ones more than others depending of the relationship. if the boy is more committed into it and the girl breaks up sure he is the one being more hurt and vice versa.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
Well i think it depends on who started the idea of a break up. when ou break up with someone then you must be the less hurt person in the situation, and you surely have been ready for it emotionally and mentally - unlike if you are to take the bad news, without any idea or expectations that it is going to happen for sure you will be greatly affected by it.
@carlynganda (749)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
based on my experience and my friend's experiences, the one who's usually more affected after a break up is the one who has been left behind..of course that person is not emotionally ready to let go of the relationship yet unlike the one who asked for the break-up..also if the reason is so unreasonable, the person left behind will be devastated..
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
28 Jun 10
my answer is girl, there are many pages of information is there about it, i tell u later lesfery.
@med889 (5941)
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28 Jun 10
It really depends on the situation because the girl or the boy might want the break up while the other partner is only accepting so then he/she becomes the one who will suffer a lot, he/she will take much time to forget the past and continue with the future though.