I hate to see her?????
By jemaries
@jemaries (321)
Saudi Arabia
June 29, 2010 12:43am CST
Even you are in good terms already,but everytime i saw her face really it makes my blood rise it up, well i dont know maybe still the pain is with me, but i guess so because after what the thing that are happened our relationship as a friend will never come back just like before!!!!Do feel the same way too???if you have fight to somebody or misunderstanding and even you are fine now but still you have anger to her????Maybe the pain what she did to me cannot be erase???
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4 responses
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Jun 10
jemaries what you are discribing sounds a lot like hating someone
and it will not do any harm to her, but will corrode your self esteem
and just be a burden on you emotions. Go to her and tell her you forgive her but do not want to be friends yet. Then just leave as its over,
and stay away for awhile till all the anger is out of you.You must
get rid of the hate as it will make you ill physically as well as
emotionally too.Good luck and God bless.'
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
Maybe you haven't move on from what had happen to you and your friend. Because there is still anger inside you. Maybe when the anger disappear, your friendship with her will start from scratch. I know this is a fact that people can forgive but not to forget. We have brains and all the memories are stored there so it is impossible for you to forget it. You can really say you will forget it but it is not easy to do.I had been in a situation like yours that is why I know how it feels. Once your anger disappear you can bring back the friendship you once had. But the decision is still up to you.
@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
The sign of true Love indeed. It's because you loved her too much that when she did something you dont like. It stings the hell out of you. We cannot avoid feeling this, we need to forgive and at the same time forget.
Cause you really can't forgive if you can't forget.
@atha13 (159)
• Malaysia
29 Jun 10
It's not easy to forgive, moreover to forget others' mistakes towards us. I think you have not fully forgiven your friend and still hold grudges on her. It did happened to me too. Though the wound has healed, but the scar is still there. I think the best thing to do is try to accept the fact that everyone makes mistake and that includes ourselves :)
