caring for CARELESS people!!

Forget her. You may be both hurting and it is not healthy that both of you would feel indifferent to each other. Anyway, the reason why you are missing her is because you have shared something good in the past. But you see, there may be something deeper that caused the rift. If you really are a friend, you will try to understand and dig deeper where everything went wrong. Honesty might be missing in your friendship or trust. Now if both of you refused to forgive and forget, maybe it is time to cool off. Maybe both of you need a space.

You sound so much like myself that it's not funny! You have a soft heart which you need to curb it at times especially like this moment. Sweetie, I've been there and done that and even tried to rekindle the friendship and found that I couldn't so again I ended up with a hurt heart AGAIN. So my advice is to remember the good times but let this girl go. She wasn't a friend to begin with or she wouldn't have spread those ugly rumors about you. She's toxic. Don't fall for that 'trap' because you'll only be hurt again. It's hard but for your own sake and peace of mind, know that you did the best that you could and it's best to just let her go and you move on with your life. Trust me on that.

Hi smiley! We seem to be in sort of a similar situation! My supposed best friend who I have known since childhood has a very big and nasty mouth and just never knows when to keep it closed! She is bipolar and I allow for her certain outbursts and transgressions, but her last one once again went to far for me to excuse so I sent her an email and she had the choice to respond by email or call me. It won't be the first time that we have gone years without talking, but I am fed up with her mouth and everytime she gets back with her "old/new friends" as I call them she thinks she can say whatever she wants to me (she told me how she thinks I should run my life)! NOT HAPPENING! I warned her that I would not contact her again and she knows me well enough to know that I MEAN IT! So, what I say to you is leave it alone, move on without your "so called friend" as I have done, and see how much more relieved you will be without all the stress and drama. It bothers me too, but I really am less stressed without my friend in my life for many reasons. One day she will need me and I warned her I won't be there for her. And your friend will also "see the light" and you will get to make that decison too!

I understand about what happening to you it seems normal problem and may happen to anyone else instead of my own friends, some people have that kind of matters they seems as they have burden to bear on their own side so they may acting strange or different because they have jealousy to others who's life is more fortunate than her own life that person may be including you, and it is not surprised me that she acting like she hate you or anything negative about you because it likely happen for someone like her, you have a good heart instead to not blocking her and usually most person who's become victim perhaps would do other wise, keep those heart smiley because you need that when you have this kind of problem nowadays, and if I were you I would do the same as you forgive her and keep in touch with her even if she blocking you it would show you that you are the winner in time

i would try and re kindle the flame, they probably want too, its jut they arent brave enough, rejection is scary ya know. but if you can face it, most of the time they were thinking the same thing. you know they might have accidentally hurt/backstabbed you, and garuntee they regret it. 9/10 theyll be happy to have you back as a friend. :)

just about all the friends I have had,, have stabbed me in the back some how,, I two kept caring and caring,, but know I realize,, that no matter how much you may care,, if that person does not see the true friendship you see, they will never be a true friend,, bottom, line if she really is your friend and it is her fault,, then she will come around,, let her go,, leave her alone,, like I said if she is a true friend,, she will be there.

As hard as it may be to accept, sometimes we're better off without certain ppl in our lives. I would just hold on to your good memories and move on with your life. You probably don't need the aggrivation in your life anyways. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]

I don't know why are you still caring for her when knowing she already blocked your name. Maybe she became a good friends once, but today the friend you once knew already change and so you have to change the way you think about her now. Sad to know that reality, that your bestfriend could be your worst enemy and now it is happening to you. She is not worth of an effort if you will initiate to send a message. I wish you just forget about her, but I know it ain't easy. I hope you can meet so many wonderful people to be your friends or true friends, so as you forget all about this not worth it friend of yours.

Three Years Ago or More My Friends and I severed ties. I was broken up about it, sad and not sure if I did the right thing or not. I had to sever ties with them though as they didn't like my then fiance, now husband. I wasn't going to stand for it, and started to realize that I had been changing for them, and I realized I was foolish to do so. Sometimes people you were once best friends with change, or you change, and there's nothing you can do. It's easier and better sometimes to just go separate ways.

is it because you are a good person. and at time with friends who we are really close to it can be hard. but i do care about some still no matter, but i can step back without any problmes. but i think you need to step back for awhile and let her see what she lost as a friend. and hope her being enscured will go away one day give it time

hmmm, your friend is acting weird. if she's the one who got hurt by you, it's normal that she stays away from you but you said it's supposed to be her fault? Anyway just give her time and give her a break. maybe deep in her heart she knows she done something wrong to you and to ashamed to admit it so she cover up those feeling to tell lies over and over again to your friends. If the situation go worse you should directly confront her and if that does not work, just stay away from her. Your friend is not worth your attention, better direct your attention to someone who cares about you.

Hi smiley I just don't know why should you think and care for this girl who betryed you already, i can feel the pain you received, it will take time to heal, time is the greatest healer on this earth, well i have a question, you say, she has blocked your name, you can't email, is that possible in emailing? or you are talking of some friendship site? Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Professor

she's very lucky because she had you as her best friend but unfortunately she was so stupid. well,if god can forgive why not we?? we're just human..if you still care for her i'm sure you can still forgive her. and for sure she will soon too realize her mistakes. good luck to you!

You're just really a friendly person, because despite what your friends have done to you, you still care for them. That is a friend with a true heart, they are so lucky of having you, it's not really your lost to still care them but they are the one losing their one really true friend.

If it was me, I would not think about her. In a way, it will be your benefit because you do not need to hear or see her anymore. If you are loosing another friend because of her, then this friend is not your best friend as she/he believes her without confirming with you whatever the other friend told her/him. In time, people will see which one are real friends and get back to you.