do you get hurt when you're not invited?

Philippines
June 29, 2010 7:51am CST
i have lots of friends so that means that i get lots of invitations too from different occasions. there are times too that i wasn't invited by some i consider friends but i don't think that would hurt me and my ego. i think it's normal. maybe im not just in their priority list and finances matter as of this time so i really understand them. how about you? do you get hurt when you're not invited?
7 responses
incus99
@incus99 (1083)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
no harm done if forgotten to be invited.. maybe I'm not in their priority list..
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flagella08
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
that's right. there's no point in feeling and getting hurt. just try and wait for the next invite.
nylade2000
@nylade2000 (46)
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
It depends upon how close you are with the person. To be honest I will get hurt if the person is a best friend of mine and if and when I always invited her/him. But then this is really life.
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Gomer Magtibay
@magtibaygom (4858)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
Honestly, slightly hurt. But it's okay. Maybe there are reasons why I am not invited or not in the list. We have to be wide-minded and understanding.
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mspitot
@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
uhm...not really. i accept if they don't invite me vene those by friends whom i expect to be invited. well...if they don't want to invite me then i can't do anything about it.
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cheszka
@cheszka (167)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
Three years ago a male friend got married, he didn't invite me to his wedding. I was really hurt, I even cried in front of other friends. I just thought he was one of my close friends, he didn't even tell me that he was getting married, I just learned about the wedding from a friend. He's out of the country now and I've never heard of him since he got married.
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nherison
@nherison (74)
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29 Jun 10
no im not .. y do i get hurt? if i am not invited then its ok.! no need to urge yourself to be invited if your are not.
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godslove25
@godslove25 (402)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
I might slightly hurt, because I'm not a frigid. But it will be understandable and it will not be a big deal.