Real Friends, do they really exist?
By vampyreg
@vampyreg (25)
Philippines
June 29, 2010 10:12am CST
Hey I'm new here in MyLot and gosh! i really find it hard at first on how to post discussions, photos and everything. But it's fine now, after minutes of browsing and experimenting, now I'm learning! Well my topic here isn't really about the newbie thing, it's about friendship.
All of us do have a lot of friends but has the difficulty of saying which of them are REAL, right? In my case, I do have a lot of friends; different group of friends but I find it so hard to distinguish which of them are real, which of them are true. I have this kind of TRUST-issues, i easily make new friends, but then I easily lose them.
Sigh. Do you also have these issues? :)
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4 responses
@avani26 (1518)
• India
29 Jun 10
Welcome to mylot vampy. Friendship does exist but as you cannot clap with one hand same friendship can never be there if only person wants it truly a frienship to survive as to be nurtured by all so you need to check if you are doing something wrong also and even I have many friends but they are not the ones who I will open out my heart to. There are some close ones who even though I do not talk everyday I trust them and cant open out my heart and know that they are safe with them.
Hope I have explained properly.
@skysaner (36)
• Malaysia
29 Jun 10
Yes. They really exist. We need to find it and when we already find it, we need to take care of it. It is really precious thing for me.
@pinikjuse4 (141)
•
29 Jun 10
Surely, they exist. Though, these are very precious, rare gems that are really hard to find. YOu would know them through time. These kind of friends stick with you , no matter what. They push you higher when you are up and brings you up when you are down. They exist, you'll know one by time.
@ilovemellow (44)
• Philippines
30 Jun 10
Hello Vampyreg! It's nice to have you here!
About your trust issues, uh if you happen to lose most of your friends then there must be something wrong in either with you or with your friends. I mean, don't get me wrong but I guess that's the usual possibility.
It's always a good thing to have looots of friends but not all of them are real. In a crowd, one or two persons would be the most deserving. If you want to know who they really are, spend more time with them. That's the only way wherein you can see there cards and lay your cards at the same time.
I hope in time you can find one. Friends are the best investments. :)
