Have You Ever Felt Utterly Confused?

I have no idea what I want to be, I really don't want to go to college. I know what I want to do for a living, but that doesn't really take college learning experience, so I guess I do know what I want to do, I just know it will take a lot of money to do it. That's not what I am so confused about though. I know people who have bene confused and gone to school for things they didn't end up doing.

Whatcha you so confused about cowgirl? There are a lot of things to be confused about..lol

It wasn't right that the girl's mother kept saying that your kids just looked like their father, and not like you as well. I know how it feels when your not acknowledged, and something that big is understandable, you are part of their lives, part of their raising as well. I feel a little better today, got some good news, so we're not as overwhelmed and confused here. Hope all gets better for you, maybe a spa day would make things better?

Yes, a spa would do a great deal for me! Sometimes, I don't know how I am feeling. I can get so tired until I don't know what kind of mood I am in. And when others aggravate me even more, it makes me feel like I don't know how I am feeling. I take care of my kids while my husband is gone and I do so much for them. This woman has no idea. In my opinion, my kids does look like me. It is obvious. I could never constantly tell a parent that their child resembles the other parent over and over again.

You are right, everyone gets confused. I know there's been a lot of things that have happened since we've met, things we've learned a long the way, and things we are still learning. But we've got some good things to happen to us to, like the furniture thing, we will not have to worry about that when we do get our own place, and I know that that helps us a lot. I know that we've got another bill to pay but we're also almost done paying off on one bill. I think that us getting this furniture has reaffirmed my want for us to get a doublewide instead of an apartment or what not. With a doublewide we might have more bills to pay but really we would be living in a place we liked and wanted, and I know we could pay on it. I know I need to get a job and that is why I really hope I can get a job at wafflehouse third shift, I could work there and that way we would be working the same shift.. Also, like I said before you and a friend of ours could always come down to the place I work and eat, or you could pick me up the next morning and stay to eat. I love you with all of my heart and soul, and I know no matter what everything will work out okay for us.

Yeah, it's just you've got a mindset about you, the way you feel things would better be done, and then you have to do the complete opposite because your not calling the shots, that's why I kind of want to be able to do for ourselves... instead of answering to bosses. Maybe you can learn your trade and start your own biz?

With things changing constantly there's just nothing that seems to be a constant, except for confusion. I agree with what you are saying, I always thought college courses were about the same as any other course taken in school, but with just a little bit harder material, and more term papers, lol. I never went to college.

I know how that can be, there are times that while I might have what I want to say in my mind, it just doesn't come out the way I want it to, and so I have to try again. My husband can usually figure out what I want to say, even if I can't find the words to say it, lol. In this sense, he is usually the one to help with confusion, or help me think of the word I mean so that I can continue on with my story or question, lol.

My problem is i cant even articulate it in my own mind

I am sure it was really confusing, you think what does love out loud have to do with anything? hmm.. just type in "Internet slang and acronyms" you'll be amazed at how many acronyms there are!

That is the worst, you're like "why be confused about THAT?" right LOL