Been planning to start a family..What to do?

First off go to your obgyn to make sure that there is nothing prohibiting you from getting pregnant. Then your spouse/significant other should be checked out to make sure his sperm counts are correct. If all is good on both sides then destress. If you are trying too hard and putting too much stress on getting pregnant often you will have a harder time getting there. It will occur when you least expect it so just be patient.