Stupid fight

i dont know maybe he was stressed and discharged all in you. maybe you should talk with him in a calm way and tell him that you are not liking his attitude towards you. anyway i wish he changes his attitude soon and that you can be happy with him^^ anyway dont keep things for yourself sit with him and talk about it ^^ thats the best way to solve your problems and hopefully he will change bcs if he loves you he doesnt want to lose you^^

Hello, wuau, I already had buried long ago that relasionship, remember that tree born crooked will never straighten its trunk.

That was a crazy fight. I never imagined having a fight like that with my boyfriend. Are you two really like that? How about you as a person? ARe you really the type of person who would be able to handle such confrontations like these? It feels like if I were in your shoes, I would feel that my boyfriend doesn't have respect for me anymore. You guys really have to talk it over and see if you're still willing to work it out. I just don' think it's good environment for you and for your future family by the time you decided to have your own.

I think you have seen the worst,and you should find a conclusion for this, reading this discussion I feel you had had enough and need to move on without him now, he should be respecting you instead of saying such rude words but then you have to see also the wonderful moments you have spend with him and see if it is worth to stay with him again.

yea, that was a stupid fight

So sorry to hear about your fight, relationships are difficult sometimes. Just remember NOONE should ever have to feel like they have to walk on eggshells to get along with their mate, it's wrong.

crystalb2007, I don't think the both of you will be able to solve or settle anything whilst the both of you are still worked up. IMHO, I feel that there is really a lack of communication between the both of you and your husband is already at his wits end on how to reach out to you.So, I feel that you will probably have to find a time and opportunity to look into the relationship deeply and talk heart to heart. It may not be much seemingly but if you really want to have some directions here, you will need find that path to be on. Take care.

Hi, crystalb2007. If you and him fighting has become a habit, then maybe you need to consider leaving him alone. If it is just an squat, then he needs to start acting a whole lot better than he is doing. This fight was all grounds for a separation. I hate to tell you this. But, it is best for you to have this made up in your mind just in case your boyfriend wants to act stupid again.

To be honest, what you do really depends on you. No one can tell you how to run your life or your relationship. In the end, you've got to decide what's best for you. If you're looking for advice, however, I would recommend that you really take a look at your relationship. If he's going to treat you like that, you might want to rethink your relationship. if someone truly loves you, they wouldn't call you such awful names and treat you like that, even if they're in a bad mood and they're looking for a fight. When my husband and I fight we might get really pissed off and we might raise our voices to each other and slam doors and stomp into other rooms, but we've never been violent to each other, never called each other names, etc. Even my mother and stepfather, who sometimes have had a rocky relationship and they tend to argue a lot and they both have really bad tempers have never acted like that. Sometimes one of them threatens to leave or throw the other out, but they've never acted like that. So, like I said, no one can really tell you what to do, but you might want to ask if you're really happy in a situation like that and if that's really how you want your boyfriend to treat you. I know I wouldn't. My husband knows that if he were to do something like that I wouldn't have a problem throwing him out because I don't put up with being treated that way. I don't treat him like that, so why should he treat me like that?

well, if he always does that and acts such a scumbag, then pack your things and leave. Dont waste your time with somebody who dont treats you well because he has a tantrums. Getting angry is not bad, but if he hurts you physically or verbally a lot of times like 7/10 times. Then there is no sense of loving someone like that. But everything is up to you, after all, its you who knows your boyfriend mor than anybody else. You can still find someone better, dont regret the lost time, regret the future time you can lose because of him

all i can say is that try to bend to his wishes and see if he behaves more when you do. the more you annoy him, the less the chance that he'd change to a more calm boy.

As a person you cant change him but you can suppress his anger and make him calm person as by listening him and wont go against to him .This is your life and you have the rights to do what you want so its better to think on your relationship first that can you make a change in his life or not .Or in what condition you feel that you could be more happy with him or without him.