How safe is your relationship?

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How many of us feel totally safe in our relationships? If your man is out tonight, do you know where he really is, or are you happy enough to believe he's telling the truth? I've seen a lot of marriages go sour because of lies, and more lies told to punish the one who lied originally! These relationships will NEVER work, once a lie has been told and covered up, the need to tell more lies becomes essential. I often wonder why some people get married in the first place, I don't believe that they marry for the right reasons, I've heard some brides admit that they fancied being the centre of attention and wearing a floaty dress!! The groom...what are HIS hopes for married life, and HOW does he end up standing there at the alter...some have said "It seemed like the next step" Is that the right reason.Some are looking for mother figures for children from a previous relationship, is THIS the right reason? I see couples, sitting in their front rooms, glued to the telly, hardly speaking a word all night....is THIS togetherness?? The fact that they have little in common anymore, have no idea WHAT makes their partner tick, and worse still, they don't care. I'm not wanting to be a profit of doom here, ther ARE some very successful marriages, mine appears to be one of them, but who knows, even the soundest of marriages crumble. Is it that we're too selfish today to keep a relationship going? Do we expect too much from a marriage and think that the piece of paper is what will hold them together, I've got news for you, it is so much more than JUST a piece of paper, and no way will it on its own, keep you together, that takes hard work, give and take and loads of other things too. So....how many of you actually know where your man is tonight? Do you trust him? Answers would be greatly appreciated....honesty is essential