cultural differences, I guess

@dawnald (85146)
Shingle Springs, California
June 30, 2010 3:15pm CST
In my old neighborhood, there was this house that got majorly renovated while we lived there. It was a normal suburban house, probably 4 bedrooms and 2 baths on a smallish lot. And then it got transformed into something like a mansion with a turret and fake distressed looking walls (plaster over brick, with the brick strategically showing in places), fancy windows, etc. So anyway, we had this visitor from Germany, Annemarie, and we were driving to our house past this one. I thought it looked really nice compared to the other ones around it, so I pointed it out to her. Her response? "Needs paint." Cultural difference?
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
30 Jun 10
Or maybe she harbors a dislike of "follies." I happen to like the better made folly on occasion, but yours sounds a tad cheesy. Bricks? If the owners had let stone show through, maybe... Maggiepie "Turn off your TVs. Don't watch your MSNBC, your Fox, your ABC." ~ B. Obama "Pay no attention to that man behind the curtain!" ~ The Wizard of Oz
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Jun 10
hahaha stone, I'll let them know. Nope, she was genuinely clueless.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Jun 10
I've never seen anything like that in Germany that I recall.
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
30 Jun 10
Well, probably. I've always though the follies were a British conceit (I use that word in the poetic sense, please note), so it's possible the concept is unknown in other European nations.
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@rosegardens (3034)
• United States
1 Jul 10
There's a house in another city, a well to do area. They also did the distressed look and the city inspector tried to get them to change it. That is a huge chunk of change to make a house look like that. I think the city did not win.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Jul 10
It's funny because I think Annemarie also made a comment about whether they were poor or not. And yeah, getting that look can actually be pretty expensive!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Jul 10
I explained that they wanted it to look that way. She didn't get it.
• United States
3 Jul 10
ROFL!! I guess to the untrained eye, it does look like a shabby, unkept home. Some people I bet would not appreciate that on their block, thinking it may drive the value of their property down. I think it is an elegant and timeless look. Makes one feel that they are stepping into some country area where there is no one else around. Did your friend ever figure out the house was new? Did you let her know? I wonder how she would have reacted to that.
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
30 Jun 10
Could be.....I have been in Germany and can't see where they do these type of things....I imagine they probably wonder why we do so many different things....even the faux painting in homes.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Jun 10
Dang, these crazy Americans not keeping their houses properly plastered. lol
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
30 Jun 10
Hi, dawnald. I guess AnneMarie thought that the house still needed some fixing up. Where she is from, homes probably need a lot of paint work and all. I guess she does not know an completed house from an renovated house when she sees one.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Jun 10
At least not one where the finish is deliberately made to look "distressed"... :D
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
30 Jun 10
Definitely cultural difference.Out here you can see the most gigantic ugly block houses that take up the whole of the lot. Really out of place. Nearby is a house built in the shape of a boat for goodness sake. I am sure that they brine the council officials to get permits to build such monstrosities. The word used to describe such dwellings is buttoo - pronounced bootoo. This is applied to anything including a person of poor taste or socially unacceptable behaviour.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Jun 10
Can I have a house shaped like a boat? The Queen Mary, maybe?
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Jul 10
What next? A sponge(bob)?
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
1 Jul 10
I can see that I am going to drive to this housing scheme and take a photo of it. We were talking of this house the other day and I believe one of my son's said that there was another house in the scheme shaped like a fish I kid you not. I"ll make an effort to rive one lunchtime. Only about 20 mins from work.
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@much2say (55669)
• Los Angeles, California
30 Jun 10
Oh my gosh . . . there's this house a few blocks away from us. We see it when we have to stop at the light every morning. The house itself looks like a cool Italian villa . . . but there is this ugly wall around it that has the fake distressed walls that I think you are talking about. Mustard color walls with red bricks showing here and there. Looks like a bad set from Universal Studios. It's so poorly done that it's a fake faux - ha ha. I actually think a thick coat of paint would much improve the eyesore. Not a cultural difference in my case . . . just my opinion as a person who designs. I have seen really nicely done walls with the distressed look, but the one near us is hideous.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Jun 10
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Jun 10
The one I'm thinking of was done pretty well as I recall, but it could look pretty crappy if it was badly done.
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@much2say (55669)
• Los Angeles, California
30 Jun 10
I think the one by our place would also be improved if they placed cannons across the street and actually shoot cannonballs at the wall. Make 'em REAL distressed walls!
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• Australia
2 Jul 10
I guess it is. My response would probably be that it's in need of repair - but then I haven't yet come to terms with holes in jeans, so maybe it is an age thing.
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• Australia
4 Jul 10
That hasn't bothered me, since I make all my own clothes - and no, I don't add a label. If I ever had something with a label, I would cut it off. If it couldn't be cut off, I wouldn't buy it.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
6 Jul 10
I hate cutting labels off (especially the childrens' clothing), because then I don't know what size something is. But the ones that rub them the wrong way get cut off anyway (inside labels). I don't really buy stuff with designer labels outside.
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
1 Jul 10
LOL cultural differences, different tastes/mentalities what the person is used to and even habits. It all counts:) I suppose that this friend coming from Europe was not really impressed with turrets and distressed looks. There's plenty there, of both. I remember when I came to Canada some friends were excited to show me what they called " a real castle" . So they took me to "Casa Loma " here in Toronto. Sure I appreciated visiting, and it was quite nice, but coming from a place where "real castles" - and I mean the ones over a thousand years old - can be found by the dozen I wasn't exactly super impressed. Maybe that's what happened with your german friend.
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
1 Jul 10
It's possible, the distressed look is not always understood by everyone I remember showing something to my husband's aunt and she couldn't get it, she couldn't understand that it was done like that on purpose :)
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Jul 10
I just don't think she got the point, and that she genuinely thought the place was left to deteriorate.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
1 Jul 10
Same thing happen to me here in Australia. Initially, I was surprised to see that most of the houses have partial fencing to their houses. The back portion of the houses are well fenced while the front portion are left bare. This doesn't happen in my country. Fencing is part of the infra structure of the house in Malaysian homes. And garages are not commonly attached to the house unlike most of the Aussie homes where the garage is part of the house unit. So yes, we are bound to meet cultural differences when we visit another country.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Jul 10
Ours has no fence. Actually there are some communities here where fences are not allowed in the front.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Jul 10
I'm not really sure what the reason is.
@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
30 Jun 10
Probably so. I remember a story about a woman who moved to my area of Michigan from Europe back in the 1950s. She said when she came into town, she thought everyone must be poor because we had houses made from wood. Where she lived, everyone had homes made of stone or brick. Only the poor ppl in her country lived in wooden houses! I also had a friend who moved to Michigan from Fairbanks Alaska in the 1970s. Most homes and buildings there in her part of Alaska were only a few years old. She had never seen anything more than about 20 or 30 years old. When they moved to a farmhouse here (circa 1920s) she was a teen and was so embarrassed when the school bus dropped her off at home. She has since come to appreciate older homes but was humiliated to live in such an old house then. She assumed that everyone thought she must be very poor. So, I think there are even cultural differences in housing tastes right here in the USA too! :)
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Jun 10
Not just taste, but construction too. Here in California, land of earthquakes, you rarely find a home with a basement, for example.
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
30 Jun 10
That's true. Here is Michigan the opposite would be the case. Where would we go for a tornado warning? lol
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Jun 10
I wouldn't recommend the attic. Not that we really have those either...
• United States
1 Jul 10
LOL! I am not sure it is as much a cultural issue as a personal one - "different strokes for different folks". I think it sounds pretty, but I would have to see it to be sure. In the city they were doing a restoration project to fix all the bridges and clean up the area, because it is a tourist attraction. After all the crumbling facades were fixed and had a fresh coat of paint, the city hired professional painters to come in and "spruce things up" by adding touches of their artwork on some of the bridges and walls. Many of the painters added 3-D flowers or other pretty 3-D scenes. What did one of the painters choose to paint, though? Yup, you guessed it ... he decided to make one of the bridges look like it was crumbling and falling down! They could have just saved all the money that they had just used to restore the bridge and left it "as is" if he was just going to return it to its previous condition.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Jul 10
Of course, I'm probably totally wrong about that...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Jul 10
Maybe he painted the "before" so people would appreciate the "after"?
• United States
2 Jul 10
LOL! I hadn't thought about that! So you could look at that bridge and see what all the other ones had looked like, and that way not only could you better appreciate all the work that had been done to fix them up but also it would make the other artists work all that more valuable. Hmmm ... looking at it from that perspective, the guy is a genius and should definitely be hired as a Public Relations person for the city.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
1 Jul 10
Dawny, i tend to agree with her. You do not plaster over bricks, it really looks horrible. Need paint, INDEED. TATA.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Jul 10
Hm, well somebody apparently liked it...
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
2 Jul 10
Maybe
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
The visitor does not know anything about modern architecture? It's not just cultural difference because I could easily appreciate anything vintage-looking. He is of traditional taste, that visitor of yours.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Jul 10
She is of traditional taste, yep.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Jul 10
I wouldn't call it modern architecture either, retro maybe.
• Malaysia
3 Jul 10
different schools of thought.. oh boy..i'm starting to sound smart
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Jul 10
keep working on that... :D
• Malaysia
3 Jul 10
• United States
24 Jul 10
cultural or individual preference. some distressed jobs can look really bad depending on how they do it.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
26 Jul 10
Seriously, I think she had no clue that it was a deliberate "design choice".
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
2 Jul 10
I don't know. Seems to me the person just has a "conventional" idea of how a house and its walls should look like. I tend to appreciate non-conventional designs.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Jul 10
I guess so...
@marguicha (223129)
• Chile
2 Jul 10
I guess that there´s a bit of personal likes and dislikes. I would not live in the house my sister and my cousin have (made by my cousin´s husband, an architect). The first time I saw it I told my husband it looked like a huge container. Other differences have to do with wheather or other needs posed by Mother Nature (we have to make our houses earthquake proof and so they are a lot more expensive). Still other "makeups" are cultural. Our old houses are made as Spaniards made them centuries ago.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
2 Jul 10
Buildings in CA have to meet earthquake standards too. Yep, it's expensive, but thank goodness we have them!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
2 Jul 10
Well, I've never been to Germany, but my husband spent half of his childhood there as his father was in the military so I learn a lot about the culture in Germany from him. He constantly points out the architecture around here that looks like it is German influenced. So, based on what he has pointed out to me, I would have to say that this would be a cultural difference because he doesn't recall seeing anything during his childhood that is anything like what you've described.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
2 Jul 10
I haven't seen anything like that over there either... Well, maybe my father-in-law's parents' rundown old house after it was abandoned. :D
@Kifndir (23)
• United States
2 Jul 10
it's true. last year when my grandma came to visit us during the summer,she asked my why most of our building are make with a wood structure and not brics.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
2 Jul 10
Where is she from?
• China
2 Jul 10
What's her meaning?her house still needs painting?
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
3 Jul 10
she didn't understand that they did the house that way on purpose...