I dont want to hurt you,but.... / myLot

Philippines

June 30, 2010 5:39pm CST

Everyday of our lives we meet different people along the way.Sometimes they are good and sometimes they are bad,but mostly 95% of them are nonsense people.I am a person who can handle such things but sometimes I get pissed off too. Yesterday it really happens,so I did say some words that I know it really hurts him.All I say is I don't want to hurt you,but did you know that you are really a person who doesn't have breeding and don't know how to respect other people. In your part did you do it sometimes?Did you came to that point also in your lives that you have to say it frankly?Thanks...Happy mylotting to all.

5 responses

mario_stevens

@mario_stevens (6971)

• Malaysia

3 Jul 10

well...sometimes we really do need to tell our friends what is on our minds. being frank to point out something is sometimes needed to save a valuable friendship

elleb0418

@elleb0418 (1107)

• Philippines

4 Jul 10

Yes sometimes it's the way of correcting them about the wrong things they are doing.:D

mario_stevens

@mario_stevens (6971)

• Malaysia

4 Jul 10

yup...exactly

dee

@yresh12 (3212)

• Philippines

1 Jul 10

hey elle!! Yes we do experience that. We just can't help but say it than rather not at all. it may hurt yes but the only way that person could understand how you feel or if that person in not doing right is just by saying it., YOu can say those in a nice way. It may offend the person but not to the extent that they will get angry with you

elleb0418

@elleb0418 (1107)

• Philippines

1 Jul 10

Anyway he did not get angry to me,but I know I hurt him.He ask for it so I gave him his dose so that he will stop.

dee

@yresh12 (3212)

• Philippines

5 Jul 10

Getting hurt and offended is part of it but it really helps that you have been honest about your feeling toward him. Rather than making it to long to say and that could hurt more I think

Patsie Hatley

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

15 Dec 15

I have not as yet, but if I ever did It wo uld be ion priovate.

dweebs_8000_j

@dweebs_8000_j (885)

• Philippines

1 Jul 10

I am not really va vocal type of person, but in cases that Person is too Much, I will rather, tell him in Private, that somehow he/she is already hurting People....

@elleb0418 (1107)

• Philippines

4 Jul 10

Yes, that's a proper way to do also.Tell her/him about what he/she is doing.

David14

@David14 (3)

• United States

1 Jul 10

i understand where your coming from sometimes you have to tell people whats what and even though you know it hurts just hope for the best

elleb0418

@elleb0418 (1107)

• Philippines

1 Jul 10

Hi David, Yes it really made me pissed off,that's why I can't hold anymore my temper.Well sorry for him,he is the one who provoke me to do that to him.If he just listened at the beginning this will not happened.