Are u in a relationship now?
By xorticanz
@xorticanz (377)
India
June 30, 2010 10:03pm CST
I know most of u say yes......I rather say yes too. I have been in love for the past three years. Our love started in a fight on a missed call. Later friends for an year and then i proposed for marriage on her birthday and finally fell in love. Oops too complex. I haven't traveled anywhere outside my place to see a girl. I did that and she was too surprised by that. We traveled to lots of places during our first date and guess what i felt i made the right decision. She is my energy and soon will be my energy all my life. Share ur thoughts on your relationship with ur girl and how u feel about it.
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19 responses
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
I thought I am in a relationship. I thought of that a month ago. But as of now, its over. He finally spoken and blow it to my face. I guess that would be good for both of us. For 3 yrs in a relationship I know this will have to come on end. Finally its over for the two of us.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
Hello Ada,
I'm sorry to know it,but maybe there is someone who is in stored to love you forever.But sometimes those 3 years are very much valued.Everything will be fine.Take care.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
Hello Elle,
Life is just like that, but what ever the store for me. I no longer dont want it. Exactly 3 years in a relationship is not just a thing to be given up that easily. I just let him go and let the fate decide.
@akopoaysi (739)
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
dont feel bad ada... its better you know that you 2 wont work out... instead of staying in a relationship that will not work out fine... right?? i was in a 6 yr relationship actually it was running for 7... and then we broke up... i was 17 when we met.. be gf and bf at 18-24... we are both in marrying age... we have plans about it.. but one day.. after a big fight we broke up... finding myself alone and worrying i cannot find someone to love as much as or more than i love him....
i was wrong...
right now... i am happily married to my handsome, caring and loving husband for more than 2 yrs and hopefully to have baby or babies soon...
good day to all!!!
@akopoaysi (739)
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
Good for you!!! be happy!! dont let someone makes you happy... be happy because you are... have your life to the fullest!!! aso when you are ready for a commitment you'll be more responsible... and you'll love your partner more because you know you're ready!!
good day to all!!
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
2 Jul 10
Well i am married since 1966, glad to know you are in a relationship, marry her soon, god bless you..
Thanks for sharing.
Welcome to mylot.
Cheers.
Professor
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
I must say yes,I am in a relationship for almost a year now.I met him last year and the love is still 100% until now.We both inlove with each other,for me he is the perfect man I ever met in my life.We have our pity quarrels too,but we patch it up immediately.I just wish that as years go by everything will be okay with us.
@dweebs_8000_j (885)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
Somebody awe you a very big Congratulations for Finding your ever waited Perfect Guy....
Gob BLess you and your Partner soon to be for the rest of you life....
and Keep the Spirit at all times, Love, Hope and Faith....
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
12 Jul 10
well i loved a guy before^^ and now there is a guy that says he loves me but i dont know what to think sometimes :( sometimes i feel that guys are so busy to care for girls. i feel that they say i love you but dont dedicate to the girl really. for my experience with guys i liked they always act not caring that much as we girls do. why is that? maybe im too unlucky to find a guy that cares for me more than everything :( anyway i wish you be happy with your gf^^ and im sure that me too one day will find a guy that cares for me^^ and it was sweet of you to travel far just to see her^^
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
1 Jul 10
hi there fellow mylot-er.
Well as you guessed so, most of us are probably in some sort of relationship.
I for one have been in my current relationship for almost 3 years (in october). We are happy together, and have really good plans together.
We are going in holiday in Greece this summer at their seaside for relaxation.
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
yes i am. my boyfriend and i been together for two years and six months. Just like you ours started in a wrong send text. At first I ignored him but, he was too persistent and I accept his friendship. After three months of texting we decided to meet each other and from then on our relationship started. Though sometimes we fight but in the end we always find a way how to reconcile with each other. We talk about the things we are planning for our future.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
2 Jul 10
Hi xorticanz! It's good to hear that you finally found the love of your life. I would say too that I found the man I really love. From meeting in the internet to finally meeting in person after 3 years of talking online and now we're married for 2 years. Our love get stronger and stronger everyday.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
2 Jul 10
Sorry, I am not trying to kill your enthusiasm for your love. I just out of a relationship, and I felt sorry for myself currently. I didn't cry, nor I did anything trying to win her back. I knew that is me, and we all made the mistake from the beginning. Now, I just don't want to talk about it. I just wish her happy for ever.
@zhaopao13 (45)
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
Hi xorticanz! That's good that you have a happy relationship with your girl. Me, I am happily married now. I love my wife so much and because of that God gave us 2 wonderful kids. Sometimes we fight with my girl but i guess that's normal for everybody, the important part is that if we got a problem then we solve it immediately because tomorrow is a new day.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
1 Jul 10
I am in relationship with my wife. It was strange co incidence that i met her. She has changed my lifestyle. She has been the best part of my life. She changed my dressing style, living style and the way that i think. I have been an open minded person from the time she has come into my life. I had not been out of my hometown, but i have seen many places since i met her. I ffe great after meeting her.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
1 Jul 10
Falling in love usually happens in young age and if it happens when you are too young, it also may be called as infatuation and not love and once you grow up and fall in love, then your maturity might take it to different level of relationship as at this age of yours, you will be able to understand many complicated things of life which is not the case when you are young
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
1 Jul 10
I am a woman but I suppose you would let me share my thoughts about my spouse as well..? I met my husband when I was working in a chicken outlet. That was when I was still studying in one of the local universities, and I had to work part time to earn some pocket money. I worked there with one of my girlfriends, and we worked from 5:00 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. daily.
My husband was also taking a part time job there because he needed some extra cash, as well as to fill up his time since he didn't know what else to do. He had just broke up with a girlfriend and didn't want to fill up the time mourning about it.
I met him on the day I went for the interview and he was the first person I spoke to in the store. After that, we were friends for around a month before eventually he offered to send me back to my hostel. That was the beginning of our love story and we were in love for 7 years before finally deciding to tie a knot in an engagement. Two years later we got married and until now we are still together. It has been 20 years of knowing him now, and even though he has a lot of flaws I learn to accept them and I love him for what he is.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
yes, i am married for 7 years now and i will be celebrating our 8th next month. we live together for 3 years before we got married and it was all perfect. we met when our band was looking for an additional singers my brother knows her for they met in a gig and he ask if she wants to join our band.... and the rest was history. it was perfect, though we still have our own ups and downs like any relationship i feel like i found the perfect person that fits my personality.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
For me I feel love too until now when I get married also for four years even if life is difficult I have to continue all of that because of love is magic to your partner.
@baban88 (103)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
right now I'm not yet in a relationship, i just went trough a rough breakup last year and uhm I don't know if I could still fell for someone again for now I'm making my self busy as possible and the only thing in my mind now is to land a job thats all. . .=]