The Worst Type of a Bad Person
By carlynganda
@carlynganda (749)
Philippines
July 1, 2010 4:18am CST
They seem to be sorry for misleading anybody and usually end up saying that they didn't mean to hurt anyone but they already did. They hurt everyone around them simply because they are playing safe.
They are so wrapped up with their own life that they don't notice what's going on around them and it's obvious that the person they really care about is only themselves.
They always play all sweet and adorable but the truth is they are completely selfish.
They are called the worst kind of a bad person because they think they are good but in reality they are not. They are not a good person at all.
Do you know anybody of this type? How do you deal with them? Well, I know a couple or two and I usually stays away from them.
3 responses
@totallyundecided (3190)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
There are many types of bad person. Including the one in your discussion and believe it or not. Even me.
They do it for salvation and I can understand that. Some people are bound to disappoint someone and because of the hurt that they have felt - they, too, become vengeful.
As for me. Those people who have no conscience are like the most bad of the bad ones. Ending someone's life without reconsideration. Ending someone's life for money. Having to attack someone emotionally or psychologically just to make himself the better one. Many types and I could go on and on.
Every villain we consider in our life also has their story - on why they have become what they become.
In high school, I was bullied left and right until I became the person I am now. A little sarcastic, a little rude, a little defensive and very fragile. I let someone in wholeheartedly, hoping she could be the friend I hoped to be. It turns out that she sell our friendship out just to save her reputation. And I am best friends with myself again.
In spite of the hurts we are going through - we should learn how to forgive them. They are bad but we are not the ones who will judge them in the end. It's God.
And despite our best efforts, we should always try to be good even if others are not.
So, chill carly. =) They will have their taste of medicine soon. Karma, that is. =)
@carlynganda (749)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
well..i do agree that people bank on Karma..and we can't just judge people..the kind of person they are right now are the collaboration of their experiences in life..like what you've said about you being bullied..people who was bullied when they were younger tends to be just exactly the same description you've mentioned once they grow up..but you don't need to revenge on them to prove that they are the bad guys..our Father will deal with them at his own time..
@kenneth101383 (908)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
That is what I am experiencing right now. I have what you called "fake friends". Instead of giving me support and happiness, they always get back at me. I realized that if there is a bad thing going wrong in the group, they always blame me from the actions that I did not do. They are good person of course, but they are very selfish inside. They are fake. And one thing I noticed is that they were nowhere to be found if there are experiences in our group needed to be helped off. And if there are instances that we are having an outing, they were always there. I am nothing against them, but they are not a perfect example of a "FRIEND".
@carlynganda (749)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
oh i felt too bad for you..how were you able to survive having such type of friends..why can't you move along with another set of friends..or better yet you have to bring it to their attention..they can't always blame you for everything..
@Jacobus1919 (1683)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
Well, actually there are several types of bad people. A bad person that has a conscience and the other is a bad person that does not have any conscience. So, the worst bad person is a person that does not have a conscience.
@carlynganda (749)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
yeah i don't want to encounter a bad person with no conscience at all..