Do you have a B E N T of mind towards - C A R I N G

I have always put others needs before mine, always been a good friend, and helped out wherever I can and with whatever has been asked of me....HOWEVER in the last few years I have seen the error of my ways, at a time when I desperately needed help and support from those whom I had helped, from one of them I was told, she had enough on her plate!!! I had lost both my parents, was suffering from depression and agoraphobia as well as serious health probs, ALL I had needed was a phone call maybe once a month, but NOT one of those selfish people even did that much. As a result, with the exception of my family I have resolved not to waste any more of whatever time I may have left helping out other people, on the whole most people are only out for themselves, and while I would never turn a blind eye to anyone in Real trouble, I wont be going out of my way either. Sorry if this sounds bitter, and perhaps I am, but with just cause I feel.

Yes, I would have done the same thing you did. We should always put ourselves in the shoes of others to be able to act out of sympathy. A lot of people just don't care and can't bring themselves to be in other people's situation. I am quite sensitive when it comes to things like this. I try to be of help when I can.