when grandparents are spoiling your kids

that is the fun part being a grandparent.. my parents would let my kids do whatever they wanted. and my mom would spoil my daughter and my neice. being a grandfather now i am so waiting to do the samething

That is a very common practice in the philippines..that's why the youngest is usually the one that gets spoiled there is separation delineation from Parent-Child relationship to Grandparent-grandchildren relationship.. parents tend to be more lenient with grandchildren and you tend to enjoy young kids if you're old..

Hi there Maxen 07! You're right. I understand you. It's really hard since you cannot make your children understand what you are telling them is right if someone else, especially in the family, shows the opposite directly or indirectly. I think that you should tell your parents or in-laws how you really feel about them spoiling your kid because it's better to make that clear right away than to keep quiet even though you hate it and suffer the consequences yourself in the future.